The Fruit of the Spirit for Moms

The fruit of the Spirit is familiar to most of us, but how can we apply this to motherhood? The Fruit of the Spirit for Moms is the topic of this podcast, as we examine how we can exhibit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control towards our children. #ChristianparentingThe Fruit of the Spirit for Moms

Our pastor recently did a sermon on the Fruit of the Spirit, and it inspired me to start a Bible study inside my private Christian parenting Facebook group.  (By the way, anyone listening who’d like to join that group, I’d love to have you! You can click here to join.)

Over the last several weeks, we’ve been studying the Fruit of the Spirit, as it applies to motherhood.

Galatians 5:22-23 says, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”

Wow! Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control are all things that I desire to be to my children as their mother.

So how can we attain this fruit of the Spirit?

The way we attain the fruit of the Spirit that we desire is by faith through the Holy Spirit. But when we put God on the back burner, we experience what I have officially named “the fruit of the mom flesh.”

And here’s the Marianna version… “But the fruit of the mom flesh is nagging, yelling, annoyance, harshness, manipulation, shaming,  and lack of self-control.”

Ouch. I have no problem admitting that some of these qualities describe my parenting some days. But, I believe that there is hope in Christ.

Maybe you’re a mom who has blown it time and time again and you think there’s no hope for you to change. Perhaps you come from a long line of emotional abuse and you feel powerless to break the cycle. Maybe you feel like you’ve been mommin’ the same way for so long that there’s not even any point to try to change.

But here’s the good news for you today.

Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control….it’s not up to you to produce this fruit. In fact, it’s not even about you! It’s about Christ in you and the Holy Spirit working in your heart.

When we experience the gospel and the love that God has so lavished upon us, we cannot help but overflow with that love!

Be careful not to get stuck in this place of mom guilt. If you’re thinking to yourself, “Man, I just don’t embody these fruit of the spirit,” let me remind you.  Pastor J.D. Greear says, “For every one look you take at yourself bemoaning your fruitlessness, take ten looks at Christ, boasting in his faithfulness.”

Scripture references

“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13 NIV

“…’Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,’ says the LORD of hosts.” – Zechariah 4:6 NIV

“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” – Matthew 6:33 NIV

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” – Galatians 5:22-23 NIV


Join Marianna Chambers as she talks about practical ways to become a more peaceful parent. Having children is a wonderful blessing, but it can also be quite stressful. Every day we hear from moms just like you who are struggling to be the gentle parent they want to be. Moms desperately want to raise their children on a firm foundation of love, but those sweet kids sure know how to push our buttons. (And boy, do they push them!)

Marianna Chambers is a counselor, parenting coach, blogger, homeschool mom, and best-selling author. She’s passionate about supporting and encouraging moms. You can follow her on Facebook and Instagram, or read her blog here. You can also join her private Facebook group for Christian moms on a peaceful parenting mission.

 

6 Powerful Ways of Overcoming Anger

A few weeks ago I shared anger lies that keep us in bondage. If you haven’t read that post, I encourage you to get caught up. I believe that’s where victory with anger begins: meditating on God’s truth about our anger. This week I’m going to share 6 powerful ways to overcome anger. If you’re like most people, you will still experience anger that isn’t perfectly controlled. But you can have a huge improvement in this area like my husband and I have.

6 Powerful Ways of Overcoming Anger podcast

Read this article on the blog or watch it on YouTube

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Ultimate Guide to Language Arts Board Games

I’ll be talking about my favorite board games and doing a giveaway this week on Facebook. Join me at Facebook.com/Psychowith6 on Tuesdays at 4E/3C/2M/1P or watch the replays.

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“Freedom from the Spirit of Anger” by Dr. S. M. Davis of SolveFamilyProblems.com

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Parenting: Principles Over Formula – HIRL Episode 142

Free homeschool podcast about Christian parenting with principles and not formulasParenting formulas tend to make us feel safe: Do it this way, and your children will grow up to be godly/good citizens/intelligent/productive, etc. But is this what God has in mind when he gives us children in our homes?

Join us and author Heather Haupt as we talk homeschooling (she’s a homeschool grad), parenting promises, principles, formulas, and the gospel.


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How to Help Your Child with Low Frustration Tolerance

If your child is easily frustrated and you’re frustrated in knowing how to handle it, this episode of The Homeschool Sanity Show will be of help. I’ll share six tips for teaching frustration management.

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Ways to Teach Children Gratitude

Who doesn’t want grateful children? In this episode, I’ll share six powerful ways for teaching children gratitude. They have made a difference for my family.

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Terrible Twos?

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with Israel and Brook Wayne

Got a toddler in the house? What is a parent supposed to do to help their child become the “Terrific Twos” rather than the “Terrible Twos”? Israel and Brook share their experience and Biblical instruction.

 

Israel and Brook Wayne are authors of the books: Pitchin’ A Fit Overcoming Angry and Stressed out Parenting, and Full-Time Parenting: A Guide to Family-Based Discipleship.

Sharing the Gospel with Your Kids – MBFLP 139

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As Christian homeschool parents, what’s your number one concern? No question – it’s about teaching your kids to know and love and serve the Lord Jesus Christ! In this episode, we talk with veteran pastor and teacher Dennis Gundersen, author of Your Child’s Profession of Faith, about the awesome responsibility – and incredible blessing – of sharing the gospel with your children. How early can they truly believe? How can tell if they’ve really understood the gospel? What do you do if you’re just not sure? And more!

 

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The Only Biblical Way to Parent – MBFLP 136

RRM One Biblical Way to Raise a BabyNew parents are deluged with advice about the best way to care for their infants and young children. New believers with children of any age may have the same experience – only this time, it’s often promoted as the Biblical way to raise them … how to be a truly Christian parent.The problem we’ve seen with several popular programs is their claim to be the Biblical pattern. The one and only, exclusive, accept-no-substitute guide to God’s rule book for raising kids. This episode, we talk about where this approach falls short – and how quickly we fall into harshness, judgment, and legalism toward our children and our fellow believers!

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What Your Child Needs to Know About Obesity

What to Teach Your Child About Obesity: The Homeschool Sanity Show PodcastWe have heard the statistics, but our kids need to hear them too–as well as the consequences. Obesity, as we know, contributes to shorter lifespans and a decreased quality of life. Let’s teach our children how to avoid obesity now and as adults.

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How to Balance Work and Homeschooling

Raising Next Generation Homeschoolers

homeschooling, parenting, ChristianWould you like your children to homeschool your grandchildren one day?
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Renée Gotcher is most homeschooling parents’ dream — a homeschool graduate now homeschooling her own children.

I wanted to know:

  • Why her mother chose to homeschool when it wasn’t as popular as it is today.
  • How Renée reacted to beginning homeschooling as a high school student
  • How she met her husband and decided to homeschool their own children
  • If her parents shared their desire that she would homeschool too
  • If she had anxiety about what homeschooling would mean for her career
  • If her mother gave her advice on curriculum
  • If she feels extra pressure because she’s a next generation homeschooler
  • If she has homeschooled friends who’ve chosen not to homeschool themselves
  • If she hopes her own children will homeschool and how she encourages that

Listen in for this inspiring interview, then visit NextGenHomeschool to read How We Manage Working While Homeschooling, the top homeschool encouragement posts of 2013, or Defending My Homeschool Rights in Oklahoma. Renée regularly pins can’t-miss content to the What’s Hot in Homeschooling Pinterest board. Follow it to stay inspired.

Renée Gotcher is a wife, writer, entrepreneur & home-educating mother of three daughters: Audrey, Claire and Elise. A former journalist, Renée was homeschooled during her last two years of high school and started homeschooling in 2010. She is editor of NextGen Homeschool and blogs on personal topics at A New Chapter. Her family lives in Castle Rock, Colorado.

 

 

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