Vintage Homeschool Moms

Welcome to Vintage Homeschool Moms, where veteran homeschool mom and network founder Felice Gerwitz offers encouragement and practical help for the Christian mom at the heart of her homeschool. Each episode blends teaching tips, faith, and real-life family wisdom — taking the best of the past to bless the next generation. Press play on an episode below, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Biblical Herbalism for Kids: Teaching God’s Design One Plant at a Time

Biblical herbalism for kids: Felice Gerwitz and Camila Johnson of The Eden Institute on teaching God’s design one plant at a time — Vintage Homeschool Moms PodcastHave you heard of herbalism? What about Biblical Herbalism? If you’ve ever wondered whether herbs belong in a Christian home—or worried that “natural remedies” somehow tip into New Age territory—this conversation is for you. Felice Gerwitz sits down with Camila Johnson of The Eden Institute to talk about reclaiming plant knowledge for the glory of the Creator. Learn about the curriculum she built so moms can learn right alongside their children, one plant at a time.

Biblical Herbalism: Learning God’s Design with Your Kids

I raised five kids across a wide age span. I’ve reached for simple kitchen remedies when medicine made me feel worse. And I’ve watched too many science videos that never once named the Designer. Camila’s approach puts the glory back where it belongs. It is important to teach our children that they are important to and the world they belong to has so much to offer.

Biblical Herbalism ~ Episode 588

Camila is a former middle-school English teacher, a mom of four (two still at home), and the creator of a K–12 biblical herbalism curriculum. She grew up with Brazilian grandmothers who reached for peppermint tea and honey-lemon without calling it anything fancy. Later, she spent years studying plants on her own because the formal courses she found either ignored spiritual health entirely or leaned heavily into Far Eastern mysticism.

She decided to build something different: a curriculum that names the Holy Spirit, honors the Designer, and treats plants as provision rather than objects of worship.

Why This Matters for Homeschool Families

Most of us were never taught how our bodies actually work or how the plants growing nearby can support them. Schools aim at tests. Life requires stewardship. Camila’s curriculum starts with that gap.

Each week focuses on one plant. The history lesson shows who used it and how. Geography shows where it grows and why the climate shapes its “energetics.” Science is pure observation—smell it, draw it, label the parts. Bible opens the week (sometimes a short original story about the Eden family, sometimes straight Scripture). Character grows through waiting for longer preparations, such as glycerites and tinctures. Art, language arts, and even a little Latin show up naturally because everything circles the same plant.

Younger children (Sprouts, K–2) make same-day teas and cold infusions. Third through fifth (Seedlings) begin the slower medicines. Middle and high school levels go deeper into constitutions and matching plant patterns to people patterns. The whole thing is designed so mom learns too. You do not have to arrive as an expert.

You Do Not Have to Grow a Garden

Camila has turned her backyard into a food forest, but she is clear: you can source every herb in the curriculum from reputable suppliers. She partners with Mountain Rose Herbs. The lessons work whether the plant is growing in a pot on your windowsill or sitting in a mason jar on the pantry shelf.

Start with one plant. Smell it. Ask what the scent might tell you. Read the short history. Draw it. Make a simple tea together. By the end of the week the children (and you) know that plant well enough to recognize it again. That is how real knowledge sticks—not through five disconnected subjects, but through one living thing studied from every angle.

The Heart Behind the Work

Camila’s online foundations course and her book Back to Eden: A Biblical Foundation for Herbal Healing (available on Kindle) lay out the same framework: five basic tenets of healing that Scripture already names—rest, nutrition, hydration, and so on. A fever is not the enemy; it is the body doing what the Creator designed it to do. A headache can be the body asking for salt and water. The curriculum teaches children to notice those signals and respond with wisdom rather than automatically suppressing them.

Free two-week samples for both elementary bands and a simple body-pattern quiz are available at her site so families can try before they commit. Pre-orders for Sprouts (K–2) are open; Seedlings (3–5) follows closely. She is also an approved ClassWallet vendor for families who can use education dollars.

Visit edeninstitute.health and the homeschool page at edeninstitute.health/homeschool.

See Eden’s Table Up Close

Eden’s Table is Camila’s Bible-rooted herbalism unit study for elementary students (Sprouts, K–2, and Seedlings, 3–5). Every subject runs through one plant a week. Start with the nine-week Starter Unit as an instant download, or get the full year in three printed books.

Listener gift: use code EDEN13 for 10% off the $39 Starter Unit or the $249 printed set, either level, through October 31, 2026. Shop Eden’s Table at edeninstitute.health/homeschool.

Enter the Sweet 13 Birthday Giveaway

The Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network turns 13 this October, and Eden’s Table is our presenting sponsor. We’re celebrating all month with more than $1,500 in prizes for homeschool families, including a CTCMath annual family membership and $250 to spend at Media Angels. Drawings happen on four Fridays, and your entries carry forward, so one sign-up keeps you in every drawing. Earn bonus entries by following a show, leaving a review, or sharing the birthday page with a friend.

Enter the Sweet 13 giveaway here

Resources from Media Angels

More at MediaAngels.com/store.

More Listening

  1. Should You Consider Homeschooling? Research, Real Fruit, and Clearing the Noise (Episode 582)
  2. Science Labs That Actually Work at Home
  3. Teaching Creation Science (Episode 362)
  4. Start Your Homeschool Day Right: Morning Routines That Set the Tone for Success (Episode 565)
  5. Homeschooling Uncovered: Research, Funding, and Surprising Facts! (Episode 559)

Have a happy homeschool week.


About the Guest
Camila Johnson is the Founder and Executive Director of The Eden Institute, where she develops Bible-rooted herbalism curriculum designed to help homeschooling mothers teach science alongside their children. With a passion for showing that the created world is evidence of a Designer, Camila creates resources that integrate history, character, and the natural sciences with rigor and reverence. She is a mother who believes that moms don’t need to be experts before they begin; they simply need to be willing to learn alongside their children.

Already Behind in Your Homeschool? What to Do When the Plan Falls Apart

Already behind in your homeschool by week three? Felice Gerwitz on routine over rigid schedules, counting what got done, and dropping the busy work — Vintage Homeschool Moms PodcastDo you already feel behind? It doesn’t matter if this is week one, week three or even week twenty-three. Sometimes we feel like we’ve accomplished nothing when, in reality, homeschooling is so much more. Tune in for this episode of Vintage Homeschool Moms.

Already Behind in Your Homeschool by Week Three? ~ Episode 587

I hear this every fall. A mom writes me, or it happened to me more often than I care to admit… It is week three and the school year does not look like the plan I made in the summer!

Life happens. Sometimes unexpected company (I live in Florida) or someone was sick. Math books were lost more times than not or took forever. A well-meaning person at church asked how school was going, and I looked at my husband and thought, help! When he asked me what was wrong, I told him, we are already behind!

Hey friends. Thanks so much for joining me. I homeschooled five children for more than thirty-two years. Some weeks were peaceful, and some not so much. There might be the threat of putting them on the next shiny yellow bus that stopped at the end of our street, and I am not proud to admit that. But, even that day was a good day. I’m looking at this from a long lens now, but building character is not just for our kids but for ourselves as well.

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So – why are you behind?

That is what I had to ask myself, after enough years of doing this. Behind the week I wrote when I planned my six week unit study, when I felt hopeful. Behind a close family friend with older kids and no toddler. Behind an imaginary goal I had for myself that didn’t account for my father, who moved in the year my daughter got married?

I used to treat the planner like it was the boss. If I wrote math at a certain time and we missed it, I felt like I had failed. That is a hard way to live. And it is not how a home school works.

Routine Rather Than Rigid Schedule.

I am more routine rather than a rigid schedule. I have said that for years. After breakfast, we start school, and sometimes school in the form of a Bible story or a continuation of a read-aloud takes place. Then we do chores, the ones that take little time, and then school starts. If breakfast is late, we still start. If math happens after lunch because the morning fell apart, math still happened.

Our goal was to get the kids’ check-off sheets completed in a week’s time, but if it took longer, the subject and page went to the following week.

Did You Have School This Week?

If you prayed, or you opened the Bible. If somebody read. If math got done even once. If you had a conversation with a child that was not about a missing pencil. Then you had school. It may not look like the week you planned. Yet it was still a week of school.

I used to try to make up every page we skipped. All that did was make everyone miserable. If a skill matters, come back to it. Don’t invent extra work just to feel better. The shortcuts that worked for me were a selection of math problems. If the child had mastery, they could move on. Sure, practice makes perfect, and sometimes they need more practice, but we used math books that had a spiral approach; skills were retaught lesson to lesson, so if it was something they knew, we skipped those problems or added more if it was something that didn’t make sense to them or they found difficult.

If you use a Morning Crate (I did a podcast about what to pack in it for multi-aged students), then pack it for the week you are in – if it is going to be a very busy week, make it short. Take things out or leave them in for another day. Ten minutes is still a start. Do not skip the activity just because you cannot do the long version. Consistency is important.

I think that is the key. Skipping things makes us feel guilty, and truthfully, skipping is okay as long as it isn’t chronic. Tackling the hard subjects first is always a good thing, and my older teens did this before breakfast on their own! My second oldest and co-author on the Truth Seekers Mystery Series would rather write than do math. So, she did Math first thing in the morning before she came down for breakfast so that later in the afternoon she could devote herself to writing. Finding your child’s passion is another key.

If You Feel Stuck

Take a minute, with a nice cup of strong coffee if I have it, and reanalyze your curriculum. Look at what you are doing and ask, what is worth keeping? What can wait two weeks, and what may get tabled until the new year? What did I buy in August that is making it hard to complete my school day? One year I purchased a composer’s curriculum. I love Classical music, but I am not musical. I had grand ideas for teaching my children the classics: letting them listen to the music, pick out the instruments of the orchestra, and identify composers from their most notable pieces.

A great idea, but the wrong time to implement. I decided this would be a great unit for Christmas break. Let’s just say it wasn’t. I ended up keeping this for an end-of-year activity when things were winding down, and it was the perfect lesson for when the math books were completed for the year and projects were finished.

At different times, we had a four-day week. This shorter week was wonderful! It was a goal we could keep with one day to “make up school” or have an outing if we were caught up. Four days instead of five is a stretch; it made things go so much better, and yes, some days it was just three.

The thing is, school still got done, and my kids learned differently than most. I had the high achievers and the high achievers who struggled to read, to spell, or to do math. Yet all my now-adult children are successful. Three graduated from college with top honors and my math-before-breakfast daughter graduated college in three years. The other two own their own business.

I wish someone had told me that it was more important to spend time with my kids than to chase an elusive curriculum that isn’t going to get them to heaven!

If Someone Asks About Standards

Thankfully homeschooling is here to stay (please, Lord) and no one is as shocked about it like they were when I got started. You don’t owe anyone any details about how things are going, not at church or in the grocery line. I would say something like: we are covering what my child needs this year. We keep records. Thank you for caring.

I was with my daughter, who had four little ones, and someone rudely asked if they were all hers. I closed my eyes, waiting for her to say something snarky like, “No, there is a sale on aisle five.” Instead, she smiled sweetly and said, “Yes, all mine, and we homeschool, too!”

Friends, you homeschool for your kids, and it is a decision you and your spouse made together; it is no one else’s business. If you must, write down what your kids learned at the beginning of the year and what they know now at different times of the year. This is not for anyone but you.

Every year I thought we accomplished nothing was a year we did the most ever. We compiled a sampling of the children’s work one time a year – and when we did I couldn’t believe all we’d done – the next year we saved special papers or pictures from events during the year so I didn’t feel that way again!

Your life, your homeschool is your own. If that goal is weighing you down, move it back, you have my permission. Get rid of the busy work. Sometimes it is wonderful to have copy work, but other times it gets in the way. Focus on the most important things, family, relationship and God the rest will come into place.

Scripture

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness.”
— Lamentations 3:22–23, RSVCE

God’s love never ceases, and our love for our children is why we, as homeschool parents, make sacrifices. The blessings way outweigh anything we put into it. Just watch: week four will be amazing, and the next day and the next? Why? Because you have a new attitude. Attitude sets the tone. It starts with you and with me.

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Resources from Media Angels

More at https://mediaangels.com.

More Listening

  1. Morning Time for Mixed Ages
  2. Time Boosters for the Busy Homeschool Mom
  3. Fine-Tune Your Homeschool Day
  4. The Best Homeschool Scheduling Advice
  5. Avoiding Homeschool Pitfalls

If this helps, share it with a friend. Until next time, be blessed. Have a blessed homeschool week!

 

Sweet 13 Bonus: Should You Even Homeschool?

Sweet 13 Vintage Homeschool Moms Podcast bonus episode

Thirteen years ago this network did not exist. There was an idea, a spare room, and a handful of friends from the homeschool conference circuit who said yes.

This bonus episode is the birthday party. One question at a time, every host on the network answers something a real homeschool mom actually asked — and you will hear the show that started it all twice: once at the top, and once at the end.

Felice’s question in this episode: “Should you consider homeschooling?”

It is the question that has never stopped arriving in her inbox, from the mom who is scared and hopeful in equal measure. If it is speaking to someone you know, send them the full episode.

Felice closes the show too, with the part she does not usually say out loud: what it actually cost to keep this thing on the air, and why the podcasters here are unsung heroes.

Also in this episode: Hal and Melanie Young on boys who will not sit still · Dr. Melanie Wilson on why you are already behind · the 7Sisters on the high school transcript · Sue Myers on a fever and a two-year-old · Meryl van der Merwe on teenagers and AI · Meredith Curtis on getting the joy back · Lisa Nehring on life skills before they launch.

🎂 The Sweet 13 Giveaway is open. More than $1,500 in prizes, four drawings across October, and a free party favor for everyone who enters. Enter at ultimateradioshow.com/sweet-13 — October 1 through 29. No purchase necessary, US residents 18+, official rules here.

Presented by Eden’s Table. Use code EDEN13.

Thirteen Years Walking Alongside Homeschool Families

It's been thirteen years walking alongside homeschool families, and this idea of a website that hosted great, vetted homeschool podcasts became a reality.It’s been thirteen years walking alongside homeschool families, and this idea of a website that hosted great, vetted homeschool podcasts became a reality. I contacted some of my friends, and many said, “What is a podcast?” Once I explained, the enthusiasm caught on, and we started our “network” in 2013. Today I share a little about those past years and promises of what is to come.

Be sure to subscribe, follow, and download this episode. Our Sweet 13 Birthday Celebration launches October 1st & you don’t want to miss it!

We have a month-long party planned with giveaways, special episodes, and more.

Thirteen Years Walking Alongside Homeschool Families

The Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network turns 13 — and Felice shares how it started, why it stayed, and who it was always for.

Hey friends. Thanks so much for joining me. Today we celebrate thirteen years of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. I started this as a way to reach homeschool families without leaving home. My husband and I had agreed early on that it was important to be here with our family. He is a builder. His work could have taken him around the state. He chose us instead, and he became a major homeschool advocate.

Thanks to our sponsor for helping keep this show and this network on the air, CTCMath.com

13th Birthday Special ~ Vintage Homeschool Moms

Show notes: VintageHomeschoolMoms.com. Network home: UltimateRadioShow.com.

How It Started

  • I began Media Angels in 1995 with unit studies so all of my children could sit at one table and study one topic.
  • I needed a way to reach homeschool parents that did not take me on the road.
  • A major switch from hosting the Ultimate Homeschool Expo —more than 100 live webinars, introducing the speaker, editing, uploading, and putting out fires — to hosting a podcast platform.
  • A writing-and-publishing podcast on another network was fun. It was not as fulfilling as walking with homeschoolers. I asked the Lord for help.
  • The idea: invite the friends I had made at conferences and blogging events to join me on a podcast network.

What It Took

Over the years we have had forty-plus shows. Not all of them are still on air. It takes time, effort, and a real love for homeschool moms. We are not here as a focus to sell a product or narrate our week. Or even giggle with our friends over somethign outlandish that leaves you feeling out. We care deeply about our audience and we want to walk alongside you in support with real help.

The network was not a template. Audio outgrew servers. We upgraded year after year. A hosting-company developer once went into our backend because we were one of a handful of podcast networks and he wanted to see how it was built. When things broke, we fixed them for the podcasters. I hired help when it made sense. There were years I broke even and called that a win — especially if a mom who could not spend hundreds on a conference still got the help she needed.

I remember staying up until two in the morning to correct a newsletter. My husband came and made me go to bed. Family and a home business collide at times. That is the truth. I have felt like quitting more than once. The love for what you and I do as homeschoolers is what kept me moving onward but on a different schedule.

Radio, Then Podcast — and a Spare Bedroom

For a time it was the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Network. We were afraid the word “podcast” was proprietary. When we started, people at conferences asked how much it cost. I said it was free, and their eyes lit up.

One of my favorite notes: a mom wrote that she and her children were listening while they painted a spare bedroom. Even the kids were getting something out of it. That is why a phone in the backyard, or in the car on errands, still matters to me.

Media Angels curriculum sales fueled the network for years until podcasters joined and paid a small monthly fee. Sponsors now help us keep growing. I no longer do the newsletter or the social media. I record, I upload, and a wonderful administrative assistant (thank you Gina, you are a blessing) takes it from there. That is grace, and good help.

If You Are Still Here

I do this not because of the numbers — though the downloads are now in the millions — but because of the people and the hearts behind them. Moms and dads who want to do what is right for their families.

If this network has blessed you, reach out. If you are a homeschool mom with a passion to share what works, I am always looking for new talent. And if you are still listening after all these years, thank you for being part of what started in my own little kitchen, in my own little town, in my own little home.

Scripture

“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.”
— Psalm 127:1, RSVCE

Resources from Media Angels

More at MediaAngels.com/store.

More Listening

  1. The Birth of a Homeschool Podcast Network (9th birthday)
  2. Vintage Homeschool Moms — show home
  3. How to Make a Homeschool Time Capsule
  4. Time to Learn: How to Stay Consistent
  5. About the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network

Until next time, be blessed. Have a happy homeschool week.

Spark The Fire

Spark the Fire even when your child (or you) would rather do anything else! In this episode Felice Gerwitz shares real, actionable tips that you can implement in your daily homeschool life.

Spark the Fire even when your child (or you) would rather do anything else! In this episode Felice Gerwitz shares real, actionable tips that you can implement in your daily homeschool life.

Spark the Fire ~ Episode 587

Hey friends. Thanks so much for joining me. This episode is for the morning when nobody wants to start. I homeschooled five children for more than thirty-two years. The age gap in our house was wide. What looked like laziness was not always laziness. Sometimes the book was wrong for that child. Sometimes they were tired or hungry or embarrassed. Sometimes it really was an attitude. Those are not the same problem.

Thanks so much to our sponsor CTCMath.com for helping keep this show on the air.

Spark the Fire ~ Episode 587

It Is Not Always a Character Issue

I used to jump to character first. Do the work. Stop complaining. And sometimes that was fair. Work is part of life. I told my children that an adult does what needs doing whether or not they feel like it. That is still true.

But I also learned to look before I pushed.

Is the book too hard? They feel stupid, and they will do anything to get away from the page. Is it too easy? They feel managed. Is it a story or a method that does not fit how they think? I have pulled a book that looked excellent on paper and watched the same child come alive in something simpler. The child was not the flop. The match was.

Has this child slept? Eaten? Had a chance to move before the hard subject? Some of my children needed to move first or they were going to move during the lesson, and it was not going to be pretty. That is not rebellion. That is a body.

Are they carrying too much? School, a sport, a co-op, and the weather in the house. Teens will look lazy when they are overloaded. Eight-year-olds will too.

What I Would Try Before I Pushed Harder

Start smaller than you planned. If you use a Morning Crate, begin there — prayer, a little Scripture, one page of something living. Then give them a short piece of the hard work. One set of problems. One paragraph to tell back. One page copied well. A small thing finished is better than a big thing fought over and left undone.

You can keep the standard and change how it looks today. They can talk the answer while you write. You can walk and talk. They can teach a younger sibling the fact they just learned. I have watched a child who would not do the page gladly explain the page to a brother. That still counts.

What I would not do is turn every lesson into a show. You are not there to entertain them. Bored is allowed. Hard is allowed. Talking back is not.

If It Is Disrespect

Deal with the respect. That is not a curriculum problem. I was firm about that. I tried not to give a speech in front of the whole table if I could help it. Handle it. Then come back to the work. The work still stands.

If they are afraid they cannot do it, sit closer. Lower the amount on the page. Tell them what they actually did. “You finished three. That is three more than yesterday.” I stopped saying “you’re so smart.” Smart became a trap. Finished was a path.

I tried sticker charts that turned into negotiations. That did not last. I tried “because I said so” with no kindness in the room. That worked for a day and cost me a week. What I kept was this: be close when I could, keep the work real, and say we can do hard things without a nasty spirit.

Scripture

“Hence I remind you to rekindle the gift of God that is within you.”
— 2 Timothy 1:6, RSVCE

Rekindle means it is already there. Sometimes it needs a smaller page and a calmer room. Every day is a fresh start. Attitude sets the tone — yours first.

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There is a one-page reminder with this episode at VintageHomeschoolMoms.com. Use it if it helps. Ignore it if it does not.

Resources from Media Angels

More at MediaAngels.com/store.

More Listening

  1. Morning Time for Mixed Ages
  2. Homeschooling a Struggling Learner
  3. Fine-Tune Your Homeschool Day
  4. Math the Easy Way: 7 Tips for Teaching Math to Kids of All Ages
  5. Time Boosters for the Busy Homeschool Mom

Homeschool Planning: 6 Keys to a Year That Actually Works

Two veteran homeschool moms on the six things that make a year work: attitude, preparation, mapping the calendar, promoting it, setting kids up, providing.Homeschool Planning That Actually Works with Felice Gerwitz & Meredith Curtis

Show notes

Felice has been homeschooling since 1986. Meredith has written close to a hundred books, most of them because her own kids needed something that didn’t exist yet. In this episode they each bring three things — six in all — that separate a homeschool year that works from one you survive.

1. Attitude — and it starts with yours.

(Felice) Before the books, before the schedule: the attitude check. Felice tells her kids the difference between an adult and a child is that an adult does what needs doing whether or not they feel like it. But she’s honest that her own house got to the point where everyone dreaded the start of the school day — and what turned it was daily prayer together, on their knees in the schoolroom, naming the specific thing somebody didn’t want to face that morning. Meredith adds the anchor underneath it: whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord. We’re not homeschooling because our children are so precious — some mornings they don’t feel precious — we’re homeschooling for the glory of God.

2. Prepare.

(Meredith) Lay out the year’s lesson plans in general terms, not in detail: enough to know in November whether you’re behind, so you’re not still doing school at the end of May. Clear last year’s books onto the high shelf. Get the room in order. Get your heart in order — what does the Lord want for each child this year, what should keep going, what should change. Then do the same thing daily: know your agenda and your priority before the day starts, so when something comes up you know what can be dropped and what can’t. Preparation is what keeps you proactive instead of in survival mode, and survival mode is where discouragement lives.

3. Map out the year.

(Felice) Her method, and it’s the most practical thing in the episode: a two-year calendar with the whole year on a page. Print the holiday list. Grid out the weeks you already know you won’t be schooling. Then circle school days until you hit your state’s required number — Florida’s is 180 — and fill in the subjects afterward. Meredith’s addition is worth stealing: build a catch-up week into the fall and a catch-up week into the spring. If you don’t need them, you have a week for field trips and educational movies you never otherwise get to. And the counterweight to all of it — don’t be a slave to the schedule. When Felice’s daughter’s all-star team made the softball World Series, the SAT prep they’d planned all summer moved into the school year, and the trip was the right call.

4. Promote.

(Meredith) Television teases the nine o’clock show at eight. Do that with your school year. We’re reading this book in March. Later in the year we’re writing and filming a commercial. Give the kids the coming attractions — the fun parts and the hard parts — instead of just announcing the plan. There will be drudgery and there will be discipline, and there will also be delight and memories. Meredith’s discovery: when she promoted school as something positive in her children’s hearts and minds, she promoted it as positive in her own.

5. Set your kids up for success.

(Felice) She had children who struggled to read, and reading trouble bleeds into spelling and writing and everything else. What she did: kept reading aloud to them, chose easier books so reading stayed a pleasure, worked remediation from the side, and leaned hard into science because it pushed deeper thinking without requiring fluent reading. And she gave them language for the struggle — if it’s easy, that means you already know it; if it’s difficult, that means you’re learning it — repeated until they could say it back. Once the reading clicked, those same kids were in trouble for reading the wrong book during school.

6. Provide.

(Meredith) Three layers. Provide a Christian worldview — she has watched too many families bring the public school’s assumptions home with the curriculum. Provide what this child needs: every one of her children did fine on Saxon, until Shine, who couldn’t learn higher math that way and needed something else entirely. And most of all, provide yourself. Too many parents hand a child a book and expect the book to do the teaching. You are your child’s teacher; curriculum is one of your tools. Be willing to learn alongside them, trade subjects with another mom, or write the thing yourself — which is how most of Meredith’s books exist. And don’t let “I’m not enough” stop you: God is the provider; you only have to have the heart to provide.

Felice and Meredith close where the whole conversation was headed. Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. The years go fast. Do what you need to do, enjoy what you can, and keep the relationships in view.

Scriptures mentioned: Colossians 3:23 · Psalm 90:12 · Psalm 127:3-5

Also mentioned: Meredith’s Joyful and Successful Homeschooling and Quick and Easy Unit Study Fun · Felice’s Truth Seekers Mystery series and science curriculum from Media Angels · The Brain Trainers (brain-training remediation) · College Prep Genius (SAT prep) · Meredith’s show on the network, Finish Well, for teens and their families

Vintage Homeschool Moms is hosted by Felice Gerwitz and is part of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. This episode is brought to you by CTC Math — ctcmath.com. Find more from Meredith Curtis at meredithcurtis.com.

Homeschooling Middle School: 7 Questions to Ask Before You Plan the Year

Sixth through eighth grade isn't a waiting room for high school. Felice Gerwitz walks through seven questions that shape your middle school year.Homeschooling Middle School: 7 Questions to Ask First

Felice has homeschooled five children, and she made most of these mistakes first. This episode is about sixth, seventh, and eighth grade — the years most of us spend bracing for high school instead of using.

Thank you to our sponsor, CTCMath.com

The mistake almost everyone makes. We look ahead to ninth grade and panic: they’ll need X, Y, and Z in case they go back to a traditional school. Felice did it too, and she calls it a disservice. Middle school is the last long stretch of unhurried time you get. High school fills up fast — and once it does, there’s no room left for a kid to find out what he loves.

What blocks of unstructured time uncovered. Give a child a block of time every day and watch what he reaches for. Annie photographed bugs, and later a real camera. Michael taught himself lighting and stop-motion on an iPad mini (their house doesn’t hand out phones early). Nicholas replaced a stripped gear in Felice’s stand mixer for an $8 part — “parts were $20, labor was $75” — and now keeps the family’s antique diesel truck running while working alongside his contractor dad. Christina started writing novels with her mom at 12 and was published at 16. None of that came out of a curriculum.

Then, seven questions to answer before you plan the year:

  1. Where are you headed — vocational track or college track? Felice had one of each at the same time. Her oldest felt like a failure because algebra wouldn’t stick, when what he actually needed was money math: loans, debt, net worth, how to open a checking account. Years later, when his college-bound cousin came for the summer, it was the “vocational” son who walked him into the bank and set up his account. (If you have a child who’s struggling with a subject, this one’s for you.)
  2. What is your child’s gifting? Not another activity — a block of time. That’s how you find out.
  3. What method are you actually using now? Textbooks and workbooks, Charlotte Mason, classical, unit studies, eclectic, unschooling. A hands-on family can outgrow hands-on somewhere around seventh grade. That’s normal, not failure.
  4. What curriculum? Christian or secular, workbook or textbook, unit studies, live online classes, video or DVD courses — and how much of it your student can carry on his own.
  5. What might they actually do all day? Start shadowing now, not in eleventh grade. Begin at church: who’s a doctor, a lawyer, a contractor, a plumber, an electrician, a store manager? Half a day with an orthopedic surgeon ended one boy’s medical plans. One visit to a diesel shop ended her son’s plans to be a mechanic — he kept the skill and dropped the career. Ruling things out is progress.
  6. SAT and ACT prep — yes, in middle school. Felice’s regret: her fourth child crammed for it in one summer between travel ball games, and it was miserable. Michael started at 13 and walked into the PSAT calm.
  7. Co-ops — and whether you want one. Three times a week, once a week, once a month; they change constantly. Felice burned out on them by middle school, and teaching co-op biology turned out to be a very different job than teaching her own kid biology. The test is simple: what actually serves your children this year?

One thread worth pulling all year: money. A debt-free unit, net worth on paper, a savings account now and a checking account in high school. Felice’s take — we skip this and then wonder why everyone’s in debt.

Also mentioned: Felice’s own six-week video classes in creation science, creation anatomy, and creation astronomy, plus the government/elections and American history courses taught by her brother-in-law, an American history professor of the year — all at mediaangels.com · Jean Burke’s test-prep work at College Prep Genius.

Vintage Homeschool Moms is hosted by Felice Gerwitz and is part of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. This episode is brought to you by CTC Math — ctcmath.com. Find more from Felice at mediaangels.com.

Morning Time For Mixed Ages

Transform your morning time into a productive routine. Learn practical tips for gathering and organizing your family's activities.Waking up with a plan is what Morning Time For Mixed Ages is all about. How do you get everyone into a routine that really works? Join me as I share ways to increase your time each day.

Morning Time for Mixed Ages: Start the Day Together Without Losing Your Mind~ Episode 583

We do not need five different school days in one kitchen. A one-room schoolhouse started together, then split for the work that had to be separate. That is vintage, and it still works.

We need a routine more than we need a schedule. A schedule says 8:42. A routine says, after breakfast, we gather. If breakfast is late, the gathering still happens.

What Is a Morning Crate?

I say Morning Crate on purpose — not morning basket.

A pretty basket is lovely, and if you already have one, keep it. In our house, a basket didn’t fit enough stuff! A crate is practical. (And, as my kids said, we could easily junk it up!) A wooden crate is pretty, and it is easy to move. If you prefer, use a plastic bin with handles or recycle a shipping box. Whatever works for you and allows you to cut down on extra trips.

The crate is the signal. When the crate comes out, we are starting. When the crate goes back, we are done. Little children understand that. Teens do too, even if they roll their eyes the first week.

What Goes in the Crate

Do not pack everything. Pack what you will actually open tomorrow. However here I will break my own rule. I usally packed in enough for a week.

  • A Bible
  • One hymn or one song on a card
  • One short poem or memory verse
  • The read-aloud you are already working on (or something new)
  • One weekly picture, map, or extra (optional)
  • A busy-hands tray or zipper bag that belongs only to Morning Time for little kids

Pack it the night before. Morning-me is not the woman I want making decisions.

Three Timed Versions

Pick the one that matches the day you actually have.

The 10-Minute Crate

This is the day you almost skipped school. Do not skip the start.

Gather. One prayer or a short Scripture. One hymn stanza, one poem, or one page of the read-aloud. What you are thankful for? Put the crate away. That is a complete Morning Time.

The 20–30-Minute Crate

This is the ordinary version, and the one I want most of you to try first.

Begin the same way — gather, pray, read a verse of the Bible. (Use an idea from the Character Planners or Media Angels.com/store for more ideas.) Discussion. Then add one beautiful thing and one simple thing. The beautiful thing might be a hymn you will sing or if the kids are in a choir or studying music someone can play a short piano piece, etc. A poem can be read, or a picture you talk about for several minutes. The simple thing might be a few pages of the read-aloud, a map, or a character word.

Older children can journal at this time. Younger children draw what they heard. The toddler participates or plays quietly with his “toys.” If someone needs to leave, they leave. Be flexible!

The 45-Minute Crate

Some seasons can hold more, especially during elementary and middle school. Forty-five minutes can hold prayer, Scripture, a hymn, a longer read-aloud, and one extra.

Do not start at this point if you also have a toddler and a teen with a job or someone who does afternoon lessons or sports. You can increase (or decrease) you time based on your children’s interests. You cannot shame yourself into it. If the room unravels at minute twenty, shorten it tomorrow. Every day is a fresh start.

Mixed Ages Without Losing Your Mind

Together does not mean identical. Together means we occupy the same beginning.

  • Toddler: Presence is the work. Give him hands — a tray of quiet, familiar things that appear only when the crate comes out. If he crawls off after four minutes, he still heard the prayer.
  • Elementary and middle: Let them carry the crate, read a verse, point to the map, write one sentence.
  • Teen: Invite. Do not lecture. Let them read, choose the poem, hold the baby, or write a real thought. Ten honest minutes, three mornings a week, still count.

Your attitude sets the tone. The crate is just a box. You are the warmth in the room.

Morning Time Stays Together. Math Splits.

The Psalm can be shared. The math lesson cannot. After the crate goes back, send each child to the work that belongs to their level.

That is why this episode is sponsored by CTCMath: short video lessons at each child’s grade, so you are not writing three different math plans before breakfast. There is a money-back guarantee.

Scripture for a New Morning

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness.” — Lamentations 3:22–23, RSVCE

Free Handout

Print the September Morning Starter that goes with this episode. It has the pack list, the three timed versions, toddler-hands ideas, and a night-before reset you can check off.

Resources from Media Angels

More at MediaAngels.com/store.

More Listening

  1. Start Your Homeschool Day Right: Morning Routines That Set the Tone for Success (Episode 565)
  2. Fine-Tune Your Homeschool Day: Small Tweaks for a Smoother Routine
  3. How to Build a Weekly Homeschool Schedule That Works
  4. The Best Homeschool Scheduling Advice for a Smoother Week
  5. Math the Easy Way: 7 Tips for Teaching Math to Kids of All Ages (Episode 435)

Happy Families

Find out how maintaining faith and love helps cultivate happy families, despite the challenges of daily life and homeschooling.Happy Families take work! The timeless truth that a family that prays together stays together has guided many parents through the ups and downs of raising children. Happy families don’t happen by accident—they require intentional effort, but the eternal rewards make every challenge worthwhile. In today’s fast-paced world, homeschooling families have a unique opportunity to nurture strong bonds rooted in faith and love. This episode of the Vintage Homeschool Moms Podcast explores practical ways to cultivate joy at home, even when obstacles arise.

Building a Happy Homeschool Family: Faith, Choices, and Simple Joys ~ Episode 583

Happy Families ~ Episode 583

Every time I sit down to record an episode on creating happy families, it seems like chaos erupts! It’s almost as if unseen forces are working against us, throwing curveballs left and right. Yet, in the middle of our daily routines—meals, lessons, chores, and everything in between—we sometimes lose sight of the bigger picture. Homeschooling allows us to slow down and focus on what truly matters most.

Losing Your Vision

Many of us entered family life with a clear vision of what we hoped for: a home filled with faith, shared meals, laughter, and meaningful connections. Perhaps you pictured lively gatherings, just like the warm, noisy households many grew up in. Reality often brings surprises, but that doesn’t mean the dream is lost. It simply evolves into something even richer through God’s grace.

As the heart of the home, moms often carry significant influence over the family’s atmosphere. This isn’t about blame—it’s about recognizing our powerful role in setting the tone each day. Husbands play an equally vital part, and together we partner in building a Christ-centered household. The key? Remembering that happiness begins with a daily choice.

Choosing Joy Every Morning

Each new day brings a fresh opportunity: Will we choose happiness, or let circumstances dictate our mood? It’s a simple decision, yet one of the hardest to maintain consistently. A self-fulfilling prophecy can easily take hold if we wake up expecting the worst. Instead, we can hand our burdens over to the Lord.

I recently had a sweet reminder of this while at the checkout line. A cashier softly sang words that touched my heart: “I place my worries at the foot of the cross.” She didn’t speak to me directly, but her quiet witness—working diligently while trusting God—lifted my spirit. It was a beautiful example of living faith in the ordinary moments. We aren’t called to carry every family worry like an overstuffed backpack. That path leads to exhaustion and misery for everyone. [You can hear more about the encounter here.]

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28, RSVCE)

Practical Steps for a Happy Homeschool Family

Building lasting joy takes more than good intentions. Here are some time-tested approaches that have helped countless families:

  1. Root Everything in Faith in God – Prayer, Scripture, and trusting His plan form the foundation. Start and end your day together in prayer.
  2. Make a Daily Decision for Joy – Choose gratitude and speak life-giving words, even on tough days.
  3. Simplify Your Life – Clear out clutter, both physical and in your schedule, to make room for what matters.
  4. Learn to Say No – Protect your family’s peace by declining activities that lead to overwhelm.
  5. Get the Children on Board – Involve them in creating family traditions and goals that foster unity.

For those in the infant and toddler years, know that the season of sleepless nights and constant demands is temporary. Reach out for help when possible, and always turn to prayer when support feels out of reach. God sees your efforts and provides strength for each moment.

Why This Matters for Homeschool Families

Homeschooling offers the precious gift of time together. By prioritizing faith-filled relationships over external pressures, we raise children who know they are loved and valued. Happy families model Christ’s love, creating a legacy that extends far beyond academics.

Recommended Resources from Media Angels

Consider the Creation Camp at Home workbook set to bring hands-on faith and science learning into your family days. Or explore the Character Counts Planners to help children reflect on godly traits and family moments worth treasuring. Visit MediaAngels.com/store for these and more.

Sign up for our encouraging ezine here: https://mediaangels.com/ (look for the newsletter signup).

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Should You Consider Homeschooling?

Homeschooling has shaped our family for more than 32 years. If recent online criticism has left you wondering whether home education is still worth exploring, this episode walks through the noise, the solid research, and the everyday fruit many families see

Should You Consider Homeschooling? Research, Real Fruit, and Clearing the Noise ~ Episode 582

Considering homeschooling? Discover the advantages of home education and hear research that supports this rewarding journey.

Homeschooling began for me with questions, doubts, and a lot of prayer—just like many of you listening to Vintage Homeschool Moms.

Lately, a wave of strong negative opinions has circulated, claiming home education is easier for parents, academically weak, or even harmful. In this episode, we look at those claims side-by-side with peer-reviewed data, long-term outcomes, and the lived experience of raising five children who are now adults.

You will walk away knowing what the research actually shows, how family values and closeness grow under home education, and five practical steps you can take if you are considering the path.

What You’ll Learn

  • Why recent online criticisms lack supporting evidence
  • Key findings from a 2026 systematic review on academic, social, and adult outcomes
  • How homeschooled students typically score on standardized tests
  • Why many families see stronger value retention and community involvement
  • Real-life ups, downs, and long-term success after 32 years
  • How daily life at home builds closer family bonds
  • Ways to keep education focused on learning and worldview
  • Parental rights and the importance of knowing your state’s requirements
  • Five clear next steps if you are exploring homeschooling
  • Encouragement that you do not have to be perfect—just present and committed

Clearing the Recent Negative Buzz

Two podcasters on a recent show shared strong opinions against homeschooling. One called it “trickle-down stupidity.” Another said she could not think of many good things about it, suggested many parents choose it because it is easier, and even used the phrase “child abuse” in comments. A caller criticized parents who had struggled in school themselves yet now teach their own children.

Those statements spread quickly. Parents, researchers, and public officials pointed out the lack of data behind the claims. Blanket statements can sound convincing in the moment, yet they often rest more on personal feeling than careful study. Comments under the original post told a different story—families with advanced degrees, solid careers, and lasting success.

Do Your Homework—Look at the Evidence

Making sweeping negative statements without evidence is risky when solid research already exists. A systematic review published in the Peabody Journal of Education (Ray, Hoelzle & Pietersma, 2026) examined only peer-reviewed and representative-sample studies on homeschooling outcomes. The findings stand in clear contrast to the recent criticisms:

  • On academic achievement, 15 of 24 studies (62%) showed homeschooled students performing better than those in institutional schools. Homeschooled students typically score 15 to 25 percentile points above public-school averages on standardized tests.
  • On social and emotional development, 16 of 25 studies (64%) reported clearly positive outcomes for the homeschooled.
  • On success in adulthood (including college and later life), 13 of 24 studies (54%) found better outcomes for those who had been home-educated; most of the remaining studies showed no significant difference.

These patterns appear across a wide range of families—different income levels, parental education backgrounds, and ethnic groups. Homeschool students regularly participate in community activities, sports, church groups, and service. In many organizations they make up the majority of volunteers simply because they tend to be available.

Research also indicates homeschoolers tend to internalize their family’s values at higher rates and show greater political tolerance in the available studies. Dr. Brian Ray of the National Home Education Research Institute summarized the contrast well: the recent podcast remarks offered prejudice in place of evidence. The data simply do not support claims of widespread academic or social failure.

Thirty-Two Years of Homeschool Ups, Downs, and Real Success

I have lived the daily reality. Homeschooling has never been perfect. There were seasons of exhaustion, curriculum that flopped, and moments when I wondered if we should try something else. While raising young children I started Media Angels, spoke at conferences, wrote curriculum, and helped manage my husband’s business. The kids packed books, looked at blueprints, lived through a new house and two remodels, fished in the pond, and once escaped school to watch videos while I hosted webinars (a fun fact I learned only after we finished our journey!).

Looking at my five children as adults, I see two who are self-employed, two in solid careers, three college graduates (one summa cum laude and two magna cum laude), and one serving in the military. Two are building families of their own—one already homeschools and the other plans to. They learned how to learn, how to work independently, and how to hold onto the values we practiced at home. They love the Lord and attend church regularly. That personal track record lines up with the broader research on adult outcomes. Homeschool graduates enter college at rates similar to or higher than their peers and often succeed there. Many develop strong habits of lifelong learning and community involvement.

Core Family Values Stay Intact

One of the strongest reasons parents choose home education is the ability to pass on a coherent worldview and moral foundation. Most homeschooled children are part of their parents’ adult discussions. They hear conversations about character, news, and decisions. When we purchased a new car, my five-year-old offered options from the back seat!

Whether your family seeks to protect certain values and character traits, the home becomes the primary classroom for what matters most. Faith is passed on in a way that is appealing and makes sense. If it does not, your kids are sure to ask questions that may surprise you. Institutional settings often pull children in many directions. At home the direction can stay clear and consistent with your family’s beliefs and priorities.

Families Grow Closer

Daily life together—meals, lessons, chores, field trips, and shared projects—builds bonds that are hard to replicate when children spend most of their waking hours elsewhere. Parents and siblings learn one another’s strengths and struggles in real time. Many families report deeper relationships and a stronger sense of belonging as a direct result. My adult children still seek each other out. One son once spent four hours visiting his sister, her husband, and their newborn simply because he wanted to—not because he had to. That ongoing closeness is one of the lasting gifts of the homeschool years.

Education Stays Focused on Learning and Worldview

Homeschooling lets you tailor the pace, the materials, and the emphasis. You decide where to spend the time. You can highlight a subject a child loves, slow down when mastery is needed, and weave faith, character, or your family’s guiding principles into every subject. The goal is not merely covering content; it is forming a whole person who can think, work, and live with purpose.

We wanted our children to be curious about the world and amazed at the glory of God in their studies. We incorporated gratitude into evening prayers—taking turns stating what we were thankful for. When grandchildren spend the night they know the routine. Even extended family has been shaped by those small, consistent practices. The legacy continues.

Parental Rights and State Requirements

Whether or not someone personally agrees with homeschooling, it remains the legal right of parents who choose it, provided they follow their state’s requirements. Those requirements vary. Some states ask for simple notification; others for testing or portfolio review. The freedom to direct a child’s education is protected. Parents who take that responsibility seriously already do the work of meeting those standards. We care about our children in a way that no educator ever could—I taught in the school system for two years and still saw that difference clearly.

Encouragement and Five Practical Steps

If you are thinking about homeschooling, start with prayer (or quiet reflection), research your state’s laws, talk with experienced families, and look at the actual data rather than the loudest opinions. The recent negative comments highlight how easily stereotypes can replace evidence. The research and the lived experience of many families point in a different direction: home education, done with care and commitment, produces strong academic results, healthy social development, and adults who thrive.

Here are five practical steps you can take right now:

  1. Research your state’s specific laws and requirements. Knowing the legal framework early removes unnecessary worry.
  2. Connect with local or online homeschool communities. Support groups and co-ops give a clearer picture of daily life.
  3. Identify your “why” and write it down. This becomes an anchor when challenges arise.
  4. Explore curriculum and resource options without pressure. Focus first on one or two core subjects.
  5. Start small with a short trial period. I gave it a six-month try and clocked out at 32 years. Best decision my husband and I ever made.

You do not have to be perfect. You simply have to be present, willing to learn alongside your children, and rooted in the values that matter most to your family.

Resources Mentioned

Quotable Moments

  • “Blanket claims can sound convincing in the moment, yet they often rest more on personal feeling than on careful study.”
  • “The data simply do not support claims of widespread academic or social failure.”
  • “Looking at my five children as adults, what I see is success. I see the long-term fruit.”
  • “You do not have to be perfect. You simply have to be present.”
  • “Home education, done with care and commitment, produces strong academic results, healthy social development, and adults who thrive.”
  • “I gave it a six-month try and clocked out at 32 years. Best decision my husband and I ever made.”

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is homeschooling academically weaker than public school? No. A 2026 systematic review of peer-reviewed studies found that in 62% of the studies, homeschooled students outperformed their institutional-school peers. Typical standardized-test scores sit 15–25 percentile points higher.

Do homeschooled kids miss out on socialization? Research shows the opposite pattern. In 64% of the studies examined, social and emotional outcomes were clearly positive. Homeschooled students participate widely in community activities, sports, church groups, and service.

What about long-term success in adulthood? Over half the studies on adult outcomes found better results for those who had been home-educated; most of the rest showed no significant difference. College entry rates are similar or higher, and many graduates report strong life satisfaction and value retention.

Isn’t homeschooling just for parents who struggled in school themselves? Parents come from every educational background. The research patterns hold across income levels, parental education, and ethnic groups. What matters is commitment and following state requirements.

How do I know if my state allows it and what is required? Every state has its own rules—some simple notification, others testing or portfolio review. Look up your state’s official education department website or contact a local support group for the current handbook.

What if I feel overwhelmed just thinking about starting? Start small. Research the law, connect with other families, write down your “why,” sample a few resources, and try a short trial period. You do not have to have every detail figured out on day one.

Can I still pass on my family’s faith and values? Yes. Daily life at home makes the home the primary classroom for worldview, character, and faith. Children hear the conversations, ask the questions, and see the values lived out consistently.

Closing Disclaimer

This episode is for educational and encouragement purposes only. Homeschooling laws and requirements vary by state and can change. Always verify current official rules with your state’s education department or a qualified advisor before making decisions.

Media Angels Suggestion Two resources that pair well with this conversation:

  • Creation Science Bundle – Faith-based science materials that help families explore God’s creation while building a solid worldview.
  • Truth Seeker’s Mystery Series – Engaging stories that encourage critical thinking and a love of truth (co-authored with my daughter Christina).

Find both and more at MediaAngels.com/store.

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