It’s Not About Money

Welcome to It’s Not About Money: The Money Podcast for Intentional Parents

Join us, Charla and Matt McKinley, as we delve into the world of parenting with a financial twist. This podcast is your go-to resource for raising responsible and ready adults, providing insights and actionable advice on money matters and beyond.  Scroll down to listen!  👇🏻


About Us:

Charla McKinley is a retired Certified Public Accountant with 25+ years of corporate and private experience. Inspired while homeschooling her children, she created Beyond Personal Finance, an interactive curriculum aimed at showing teens the true costs of adulthood. Now retired from homeschooling, Charla’s focus is on helping teens and their parents prepare for the next season.  Charla’s husband, Matt, has come along for the ride and brings his humor, energy and unique insights.

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It's Not About Money
It's Not About Money

Join us, Charla and Matt McKinley, as we delve into the world of parenting with a financial twist. This podcast is your go-to resource for raising responsible and ready adults, providing insights and actionable advice on money matters and beyond.


Podcast Episodes

Sweet 13 Bonus: The Network Turns Thirteen

The Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network turns thirteen. Hosts from across the network each answer one real homeschool question, all in one episode.

Project Ideas to Generate Cash (Replay)

Project Ideas to Generate Cash They discuss how these experiences can help foster responsibility, financial independence, and a solid work ethic, all while equipping young people with valuable life skills. Sponsored by CTCMath.com Key Points Discussed: – No Paying for Chores: Charla shares why she’s firmly against paying children for chores, explaining that chores are […]

Back to School Contract (Replay)

Back to School Contract:  The No Argument Approach sponsored by CTCMath.com In this episode, Matt and Charla McKinley welcome their son Jack McKinley back to the studio. They discuss Jack’s summer experiences, his work, friendships, and financial management. The focus then shifts to the concept of a back-to-school contract, a tool that has helped their […]

Teaching Teens the Value of Hard Work

🎙️ INAM 25-24 Summary Teaching Teens the Value of Hard Work In this episode, Matt and Charla bust the myth that teens will “just get” a work ethic.Spoiler alert: They won’t.Work ethic is taught, modeled, and experienced—it takes intentional parenting, not crossed fingers and good vibes. 🔎 What We Dig Into: 1. Hard work isn’t […]

You Can’t Cram for Adulthood

🎙️ INAM 25-23: You Can’t Cram for Adulthood Listen to all of the It’s Not About Money Podcast episodes here. In this sentimental (and slightly hilarious) episode, Charla welcomes a very special guest—her daughter Kate. As Kate prepares to launch into college life, the two reflect on the long runway of life lessons that shaped […]

3 Things You Need To Stop Doing For Your Kids

3 Things You Should Stop Doing for Your Kids (Right Now) Welcome back to It’s Not About Money—the podcast where parenting gets intentional and the laughs are free. In this episode, Matt and Charla pull no punches as they dive into a fiery topic that might just make your mornings quieter and your kids more […]

Your Child is More Capable Than You Know (Part 2)

INAM 25-20 Summary – Your Child is More Capable Than You Know (Part 2) Welcome back to It’s Not About Money, the money podcast for intentional parents!In this episode, Charla and Matt dive into the second part of their series, exploring how you can help your child take on more responsibility as they grow from […]

Your Kids Are More Capable Than You Think- Part One

📚 Part of our guide: Homeschooling with Toddlers & Little Ones INAM 25-19 Summary: Your Kids Are More Capable Than You Think (Part One) In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla kick off a two-part series on chores, focusing this week on kids ages 2 to 10. Spoiler alert: your kids […]

Adulting Is Not Optional – How to Raise Capable, Confident Kids

INAM 25-18 Summary: Adulting Is Not Optional – How to Raise Capable, Confident Kids In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla tackle a growing parenting challenge—how to raise kids who are prepared for adulthood before they leave the house.From household chores to job interviews, this episode unpacks what it really takes […]

Building Resilience Through Quality Time (and Movies That Matter)

INAM 25-17 Summary: Building Resilience Through Quality Time (and Movies That Matter) In this special mother-daughter episode of It’s Not About Money, Charla is joined by her daughter Kate to explore how families can use storytelling—especially movies—to build resilience and connection. With Matt out this week, the ladies dive into one of their favorite family […]

Is It a Dream or Just a Fantasy? Helping Kids Discern Their Future

INAM 25-16 Summary: Is It a Dream or Just a Fantasy? Helping Kids Discern Their Future In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla explore a common parenting challenge: how to help your child tell the difference between a dream worth pursuing and a fantasy. While we all want to encourage our […]

Top 5 Personal Finance Books Every Parent Should Read This Financial Literacy Month

Top 5 Personal Finance Books Every Parent Should ReadFinancial Literacy Month In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla celebrate Financial Literacy Month by spotlighting five game-changing personal finance books for adults who want to improve their own money skills in order to better teach their kids. If you’ve ever felt underqualified […]

Should You Show Your Kids Your Finances?

Should you show your kids your finances? In today’s episode, Charla and Matt dive into this question and discuss why they believe the answer is no. While financial transparency is important in some areas, sharing exact numbers with kids can often do more harm than good. Should You Show Your Kids Your Finances?  Charla explains […]

7 Things Your Teen Should Pay For

7 Things Your Teen Should Pay For In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla dive into a key topic for parents of teens—helping kids develop financial responsibility by contributing to their own expenses. While some parents might hesitate at the idea, Charla explains how strategic financial contributions help teens learn valuable […]

The 1 Predictor of Money Problems

The #1 Predictor of Money Problems: Why Self-Control Matters In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla discuss the powerful connection between self-control and financial success. Research shows that a lack of self-control is a significant predictor of future money problems, and as parents, we have the opportunity to help our kids […]

You Don’t Get To Keep All You Make

You Don’t Get To Keep All You Make-  How to Calculate a Paycheck In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla introduce a special session designed to help teens understand the reality of paychecks. Charla recently taught a virtual one-hour lesson to students across the country, and today, she shares that session […]

Small Steps, Big Confidence

Small Steps, Big Confidence: 18 Year Old Kate Shares Her Journey  In this episode of *It’s Not About Money*, Charla is once again joined by her daughter, Kate, to dive into an important topic—confidence. As a high school senior preparing for college, Kate shares her perspective on how she built confidence over time and how […]

28 Skills Every Teen Should Master

28 Skills Every Teen Should Master  In this episode, Charla is joined by a special guest—her daughter, Kate! As Kate prepares to head off to college, they discuss the essential life skills every teen should master before leaving home. From money management to car maintenance, Kate shares her experiences, successes, and challenges in becoming independent. […]

Making An Allowance Count

3 Keys to Making an Allowance Count Part 2 In this episode, Matt and Charla dive into listener questions about allowance, covering everything from when to start giving one, how to handle unwise spending choices, and whether all kids should receive an allowance at the same time. Charla provides expert insights on structuring allowance to […]

3 Ways to Make an Allowance Count

3 Keys to Making an Allowance Count In this episode, Matt and Charla break down the topic of allowance and how parents can use it as a tool to teach kids financial responsibility. They explore the dos and don’ts of giving an allowance, the importance of consistency, and why it should never be tied to […]

Traditions with Heart

Traditions with Heart- Raising Grateful Kids on Valentine’s Day and Beyond In this heartwarming episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla explore the power of intentional family traditions and how they can shape kids’ values, foster gratitude, and create lasting memories. With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, Charla shares some of the […]

The $1 Burrito

The $1 burrito that transformed how I teach In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Charla shares a pivotal parenting story featuring her son, Jack, and a $1 burrito that sparked a deeper understanding of financial responsibility. Jack joins Charla to reflect on the lessons he learned from managing his own budget as a […]

Distracted to Disciplined

Distracted to Disciplined- 22 year old Jack shares his journey In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Charla takes the hosting chair and welcomes her son, Jack, as a special guest. Together, they reflect on Jack’s inspiring transformation from a distracted teen to a disciplined and motivated young adult. This conversation offers parents hope […]

Future Focused

Future Focused:  Unlock Your Kids’ Imagination About the Bright Future Ahead In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla dive into the importance of helping kids imagine their future and the benefits of incorporating fun, future-focused conversations at the dinner table. They share tips on how to encourage kids to dream about […]

Self-Confidence Shapes the Future

7 Ways Self-Confidence Shapes the Future (Part Two) In this second installment of the confidence series, Matt and Charla dive into the final three ways self-confidence can transform a child’s life. They explore the deep connections between confidence, mindset, motivation, and leadership, offering practical insights and real-life examples. To wrap up the episode, Charla shares […]

7 Ways Self-Confidence Shapes the Future

7 Ways Self-Confidence Shapes the Future (Part One) In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss how building self-confidence in children can create a positive ripple effect throughout their lives. Charla shares her insights and experiences, highlighting the importance of confidence in helping kids navigate challenges, make decisions, and foster resilience. The episode also teases a […]

Let Your Teen Pay (Replay)

Let Your Teen Pay:  Empower Your Teen with Financial Ownership Episode Summary: In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss the importance of teaching teens financial responsibility by giving them ownership over their own expenses. They explore practical strategies to help teens understand the value of money and make informed financial decisions. Discussion Highlights: Real-Life Financial […]

7 Things To Stop Doing (Replay)

7 Things To Stop Doing For Your Kids – Episode 17 Introduction: – Welcome back to “It’s Not About Money,” the podcast for intentional parents. – Join us as we guide you through empowering your tweens and teens on their journey to adulthood. Episode Highlights: Stop Waking Your Teens Up: – Encourage independence by letting […]

INAM: Empowering Teens (Replay)

Empowering Teens Episode 9 Summary: “Empowering Teens: 28 Essential Life Skills to Start Now” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, unveil a comprehensive list of 28 essential life skills that every teen should know.  The skills are categorized into personal care, kitchen, outside the […]

7 Holiday “Dangers”

7 Holiday “Dangers” That Aren’t Dangerous In this holiday-themed episode, Matt and Charla take a lighthearted look at the “dangers” parents often worry about during the holiday season. Through humorous and relatable stories, they explore how letting go of perfection and allowing children to make small mistakes can help families enjoy a more relaxed, joyful […]

INAM: Peaceful Parenting (Replay)

Peaceful Parenting Episode 5 Summary: “Peaceful Parenting:  10 Battles that Aren’t Worth It” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, discuss the importance of choosing battles wisely when parenting teens. Charla shares insights on 10 battles with teens that may not be worth the struggle. […]

INAM: Beyond the Nest (Replay)

Beyond the Nest Episode 3 Summary: “Beyond the Nest:  Nurturing Self-Confidence in Kids” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, delve into the essential topic of self-confidence in children. Charla shares her insights on nurturing self-confidence through meaningful experiences. Segments Helping Someone Different from You: […]

10 Gifts to Bring Your Family Together

10 Gifts To Bring Your Family Together In this episode, Matt and Charla focus on one of the most essential aspects of family life: quality time. Charla shares how this is her love language, and together, they explore practical ways to build strong family bonds that stand the test of time. Key Topics Covered: – […]

Listener’s Questions!

Listener Questions! In this episode, Matt and Charla tackle listener questions, diving into topics about kids, money, and parenting. They share their personal experiences and practical tips for raising financially savvy kids while navigating the ups and downs of family life. Key Topics Covered: – When to Start Talking to Kids About Money:  It’s never […]

Financial Books for Kids

Financial Books for Kids In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla discuss a fundamental topic for families—normalizing money conversations with kids. They dive into why it’s essential to introduce financial topics early and make them part of everyday family life. Reflecting on their own upbringing and experiences, and emphasize how breaking […]

Narrow the Search

Narrow the Search In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla delve into the process of helping teens narrow down their career interests and understand the importance of focusing on career clusters. They discuss how exploring different career paths and making informed decisions can set teenagers up for future success and financial […]

5 Relationships Your Teen Needs to Struggle Through

5 Relationships Your Teen Needs to Struggle Through In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla explore the vital role that struggling through certain relationships plays in the growth of teenagers. They discuss how letting teens navigate challenges on their own helps build resilience and prepares them for adulthood. Key Points Discussed: […]

Teach Them to Look

Teach Them to Look In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla discuss the importance of teaching children awareness—helping them notice their environment and take responsibility for what needs to be done. Inspired by parenting coach Hope Sydell’s methods, the hosts explore practical ways to foster mindfulness and proactive behavior in kids, […]

Fostering Harmony with Technology

Balance:  Fostering Harmony with Technology In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla discuss a significant issue in modern parenting: balancing privileges, like screen time, with responsibility. Their conversation centers on how allowing increased freedom, when paired with demonstrated responsibility, can help teens learn to manage real-life challenges. Key Points Discussed: – […]

Project Ideas to Generate Cash

Project Ideas to Generate Cash They discuss how these experiences can help foster responsibility, financial independence, and a solid work ethic, all while equipping young people with valuable life skills. Key Points Discussed: – No Paying for Chores: Charla shares why she’s firmly against paying children for chores, explaining that chores are essential household tasks […]

Gratitude in Three Steps

Gratitude in Three Steps In this episode of It’s Not About Money, Matt and Charla share their insights on teaching children gratitude by letting them experience the weight of their responsibilities. Through humorous stories and real-life examples, they discuss how gradually shifting responsibilities to kids can help them understand the value of effort and develop […]

From Dreams To Dollars

From Dreams To Dollars ( Help Your Teen Plan for a Financially Secure Future) In this episode, Matt and Charla delve into the importance of preparing teens for financial independence and realistic career planning. Charla, creator of Beyond Personal Finance, shares insights from her curriculum designed to help teens understand the cost of living and […]

20 Things Your Teen Should Aspire To

20 Things Your Teen Should Aspire To In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss their philosophy of avoiding a too-cushy or pampered lifestyle for their children. They focus on how to balance generosity with teaching the value of hard work, responsibility, and realistic expectations. By doing so, they aim to prepare their children for a […]

Privilege vs Responsibility

Privilege vs Responsibility In this episode of *It’s Not About Money*, Matt and Charla dive deep into the essential balance between responsibility and privilege in raising children. They explore how these concepts can help mold children into responsible adults and how parents can strategically use privileges to teach valuable life lessons. Key Points Discussed: – […]

Stuff Your Teen Can Fail At

Stuff Your Teen Can Fail At Allowing teens to experience and learn from failure in a supportive environment helps build their confidence, independence, and problem-solving skills, preparing them for future challenges. Key Points Discussed: Encouraging Self-Belief and Independence in Teens: – Allowing teens to fail in low-stakes situations helps build resilience and problem-solving skills. – […]

Greatest Gift

The Greatest Gift You Can Give Your Child In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” Matt and Charla discuss the greatest gifts we can give our children, focusing on building their self-confidence and independence. They share practical parenting techniques to nurture self-belief and equip kids with essential life skills. Key Points Discussed: Belief in […]

3 Traits That Define A True Adult

3 Traits That Define A True Adult In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” Matt and Charla dive into the essentials of intentional parenting, focusing on the crucial skills children need to develop into responsible and capable adults. They explore the concept of raising adults, not just kids, and emphasize the importance of fostering […]

Back To School Budget – A Handy Guide

Back to School Budget- A Handy Guide to Letting Your Teen Practice Money Skills In this episode, Matt and Charla McKinley discuss the importance of teaching children financial responsibility through a practical and hands-on approach. They introduce a back-to-school budget exercise where kids are given control over their clothing budget, using a Visa gift card to […]

Back to School Contract

Back to School Contract:  The No Argument Approach In this episode, Matt and Charla McKinley welcome their son Jack McKinley back to the studio. They discuss Jack’s summer experiences, his work, friendships, and financial management. The focus then shifts to the concept of a back-to-school contract, a tool that has helped their family establish clear […]

6 Essential Steps When Considering a Credit Card

6 Essential Steps When Considering a Credit Card In this episode, Matt and Charla McKinley dive into the often contentious and anxiety-inducing topic of credit cards. Charla, the creator of “Beyond Personal Finance,” shares her unique perspective on teaching teens about credit card usage. Matt & Charla firmly believe in the importance of hands-on financial […]

Let Your Teen Pay

Let Your Teen Pay:  Empower Your Teen with Financial Ownership Episode Summary: In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss the importance of teaching teens financial responsibility by giving them ownership over their own expenses. They explore practical strategies to help teens understand the value of money and make informed financial decisions. Discussion Highlights: Real-Life Financial […]

12 Essential Attributes

12 Essential Attributes to Prioritize Over the Pursuit of Happiness In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss 12 attributes parents should prioritize over happiness when raising their children. They delve into why focusing solely on happiness can be counterproductive and offer insights into the long-term benefits of teaching children qualities like patience, self-control, and grit. […]

3 Parenting Lessons

3 Parenting Lessons I Learned the Hard Way Charla shares three significant parenting lessons she learned through her own experiences. Lesson 1: Overprotecting Children Can Hurt Their Development – Empowering Kids: When parents take on their children’s burdens, it sends a message that these problems are too big for the children to handle themselves. – […]

13 Privileges to be Earned

13 Privileges to be Earned In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss the importance of granting privileges based on a child’s maturity and responsibility rather than age or peer pressure. They emphasize the significance of tying privileges to demonstrated responsibility and provide practical examples and strategies for parents to implement this approach effectively. **The Concept […]

8 Benefits of a Part-Time Job

8 Benefits of a Part-Time Job In this episode, Matt and Charla discuss the numerous benefits of part-time jobs for teenagers. They share personal anecdotes, insights, and practical advice on how part-time work can help teens develop essential life skills, financial independence, and a strong work ethic. **Family Dynamics and Part-Time Jobs:** – Discussion on […]

Use AI to Find Your Path

How to Use AI to Find Your Path In this episode, Matt and Charla delve into the practical ways parents can utilize artificial intelligence, specifically ChatGPT, to help their teens explore potential career paths. Whether your child is college-bound or looking into trades, this episode offers valuable insights on leveraging AI to navigate the often […]

Top Skills for College

Top Skills for College Introduction: Welcome back to the “It’s Not About Money” podcast, The Money Podcast for intentional parents, featuring hosts Matt and Charla. In this episode, Matt & Charla delve into a crucial topic: “Top Skills for College Success.” Their engaging banter sets the stage for a discussion filled with practical insights and […]

The Waiting Game

The Waiting Game A Roadmap for Developing Waiting Skills Setting the Scene: – Acknowledging the podcast’s focus on intentional parenting and discussing today’s central topic: patience. – Introduction of Matt & Charla, their personal experiences, and their shared understanding of the struggles related to impatience. Parental Responsibility in Teaching Patience: – Sharing personal stories about […]

Our Story

Our Story Introduction: Welcome to “It’s Not About Money,” the podcast that dives deep into personal finance and education. In this episode, Charla and Matt share the inspiring story of Beyond Personal Finance and how it evolved from a homeschool project into a nationwide financial education program. Origins of Beyond Personal Finance: Charla recounts the […]

Allowance at Every Age

Allowance at Every Age Introduction: Welcome back to “It’s Not About Money,” the podcast for intentional parents. In this episode, Charla and her husband delve into the sensitive yet crucial topic of teaching kids about money through the concept of allowance. The Philosophy of Allowance: Allowance serves as a method for parents to instill financial […]

7 Things To Stop Doing

7 Things To Stop Doing For Your Kids – Episode 17 Introduction: – Welcome back to “It’s Not About Money,” the podcast for intentional parents. – Join us as we guide you through empowering your tweens and teens on their journey to adulthood. Episode Highlights: Stop Waking Your Teens Up: – Encourage independence by letting […]

Is Your Teen Ready?

Is Your Teen Ready? Introduction: Charla & Matt welcome listeners back to another episode of “It’s Not About Money – The Money Podcast for Intentional Parents,” discussing the challenges and joys of parenting teenagers and preparing them for financial independence. Opening Banter: Charla & Matt discuss their current podcasting setup and the absence of their […]

4 Things a Debit Card Can Teach

4 Things a Debit Card Can Teach Introduction: Charla & Matt warmly welcome listeners to another insightful episode of “The It’s Not About Money Podcast.” Today’s episode is special as they are joined by their daughter Kate.  A 17 year old junior who brings a unique perspective on financial independence for teens. Opening Banter: Charla […]

Table Talk

Table Talk- Questions to get your child thinking about the future Introduction: Charla and her husband, Matt, warmly welcome listeners back to “The It’s Not About Money Podcast,” a show designed for intentional parents. They share light banter about the podcast’s name and introduce their canine companion, Rudy, who occasionally snores during recordings, adding a […]

10 Books To Up Your Financial Game

Financial Reads: 10 Books To Up Your Financial Game Introduction: Welcome to another engaging episode of “It’s Not About Money,” broadcasting live from the BPF Podcast Headquarters. Join your hosts, Matt and Charla, along with our beloved studio pet guest star Rudy, as we delve into the intricacies of financial literacy and parenting. Setting the […]

INAM: 5 Money Lessons For Your Teen

The Big 5- Money Lessons Your Teen Needs Before They Leave Home Introduction: Welcome back to another enlightening episode of the “It’s Not About Money” podcast, where we dive deep into the realm of financial education. Joining us today are your hosts, Matt and Charla, as we embark on a journey to empower parents in […]

INAM: Beginners Guide to the Future

The Beginners Guide to the Future – Episode 11 Summary (Full Transcript below the links) In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” Matt and Charla McKinley mark another first for the podcast with the appearance of their son Jack. Jack is on hand to discuss his collaboration with Charla on the new elementary-age curriculum […]

INAM: Building Blocks of Maturity

Building Blocks of Maturity Episode 10 Summary: “Building Blocks of Maturity: 5 Steps to Raising Responsible and Ready Adults” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, take a break from their usual list format and delve into the foundational building blocks of maturity.  Charla introduces […]

INAM: Empowering Teens

Empowering Teens Episode 9 Summary: “Empowering Teens: 28 Essential Life Skills to Start Now” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, unveil a comprehensive list of 28 essential life skills that every teen should know.  The skills are categorized into personal care, kitchen, outside the […]

INAM: Spring Cleaning

Episode 8 Summary: “Spring Cleaning: Teaching Teens Responsibility and Routine” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, discuss the significance of spring cleaning and the benefits of establishing a schedule for household tasks. Charla provides seven big tasks that parents can assign to their teens, […]

INAM: Beyond the Screen

Beyond the Screen Episode 7 Summary: “Beyond the Screen:  Money Movies to Spark Discussion” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, share their family tradition, “Movie Box Monday,” where they use documentaries to create common experiences and thoughtful discussions. Matt discusses the power of storytelling […]

INAM: Alone, Not Lonely

Alone Not Lonely Episode 6 Summary: “Alone, Not Lonely:  Nurturing Creativity by Embracing Boredom” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, delve into the importance of resisting the urge to constantly entertain children and allowing them to experience boredom. Charla shares personal experiences and provides […]

INAM: Peaceful Parenting

Peaceful Parenting Episode 5 Summary: “Peaceful Parenting:  10 Battles that Aren’t Worth It” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, discuss the importance of choosing battles wisely when parenting teens. Charla shares insights on 10 battles with teens that may not be worth the struggle. […]

INAM: Responsibility Roadmap

Responsibility Roadmap Episode 4 Summary: “Responsibility Roadmap:  A Guide for Every Stage of Childhood” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley explore the crucial theme of responsibility in parenting. Charla, the Artisan of Adulting, sheds light on the significance of gradually transitioning responsibilities to prepare kids for adulthood. Segments […]

INAM: Beyond the Nest

Beyond the Nest Episode 3 Summary: “Beyond the Nest:  Nurturing Self-Confidence in Kids” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, delve into the essential topic of self-confidence in children. Charla shares her insights on nurturing self-confidence through meaningful experiences. Segments Helping Someone Different from You: […]

INAM: Beyond Chores

Beyond Chores ~ Episode 2 Episode 2 Summary: “Beyond Chores:  Finding the Right Approach to Kid’s Allowance” In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley dive into the nuanced topic of allowance for intentional parenting. Charla shares their journey and the challenges faced in deciding how to approach allowance for […]

INAM: The 6 Must-Dos to Boost Teen Independence

Episode 1: The 6 Must-Dos to Boost Teen Independence In this episode of “It’s Not About Money,” hosts Matt and Charla McKinley, the Artisan of Adulting, explore the crucial experiences that foster independence and prepare teens for the real world.  Charla shares insights from their son Jack’s journey and presents a list of 6 must-do […]

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