Homeschooling, or School-at-Home? – MBFLP 265-1

Is this “homeschooling” or is it “school-at-home”? Is there a difference? 

Many families have experienced public school from a remote location this year — and some districts are calling it “homeschooling.” But most homeschooling veterans will tell you there is a world of difference between independent, parent-led education, and taking public school classes with public school curriculum, online. Hint: The location – obviously enough – is not the distinction!

In two episodes, Hal and Melanie talk about the substantial differences between the two concepts, how they operate differently on a day-to-day basis, and why that’s crucially important for your family. 

NEWS OF INTEREST

“New state figures released Thursday show North Carolina’s estimated home-school population grew by more than 30,000 children during the 2020-21 school year — a 20.6% increase from the prior year. … ”

T. Keung Hui, “Enrollment soars in NC homeschools, private schools, and charter schools amid pandemic”
Raleigh, N.C. News & Observer – 3 Jul 2021

Quarantine School – It gets better from here! – MBFLP 247


Schools are still out and so’s the jury – could this be a glimpse of your future? To be honest, few people could have dreamed that millions of kids would start learning from home this spring, and nobody consulted the parents whether they felt like giving homeschooling a whirl. The good news is, if you pivot to intentional homeschooling for the fall, you may find it’s much less stress and a lot more interesting. This episode, we’re talking about some of the differences between emergency-level school-at-home and the more routine experience of parent-led home education.



How to Choose Homeschool Curriculum That Actually Works

Overwhelmed by homeschool curriculum choices? Learn how to choose homeschool curriculum that fits your child, your goals, and your family’s learning style.How to Choose Homeschool Curriculum That Actually Works

Feeling overwhelmed by homeschool curriculum choices? You are not alone.

One of the biggest stress points for homeschooling parents—especially in the beginning—is trying to figure out which curriculum will actually work for their family. There are so many options, so many opinions, and so much pressure to “get it right” the first time.

The good news? You do not need to find the perfect homeschool curriculum.

You just need to find the curriculum that fits your child, your goals, and your real-life homeschool.

In this episode, we’re talking about how to choose homeschool curriculum that actually works—without overcomplicating the process or buying into the hype.

🎧 Listen now and get practical encouragement for building a homeschool that works.

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How Do You Choose the Right Homeschool Curriculum?

The best homeschool curriculum is the one that fits your child’s learning style, your family’s goals, and your homeschool approach.

Before you buy anything, it helps to step back and ask a few important questions:

  • What kind of education are we trying to build?
  • How does my child learn best?
  • How much structure do we actually need?
  • How much time and energy do I realistically have to teach?

When you answer those questions first, curriculum becomes much easier to choose.

Why Choosing Homeschool Curriculum Feels So Overwhelming

If you’ve ever opened a homeschool curriculum catalog, walked through a convention hall, or scrolled homeschool groups online, you know the feeling.

There are:

  • endless curriculum options
  • passionate opinions from other moms
  • “must-have” recommendations
  • flashy programs with beautiful packaging
  • and a quiet fear in the background that says…

“What if I choose the wrong thing?”

That fear is real—but it’s also very common.

Most homeschool moms worry about:

  • falling behind
  • wasting money
  • picking something too hard or too easy
  • or choosing something that just doesn’t work for their child

The truth is, most homeschooling families refine their curriculum over time. You are not expected to get it all perfect in year one.

Start with Your Homeschool Goals

Before you buy curriculum, ask yourself:

What do I want this homeschool to accomplish?

That may sound obvious, but it’s one of the most important starting points.

Different families homeschool for different reasons.

You may be prioritizing:

And all of those goals will influence the kind of curriculum that makes sense for your home.

A curriculum that works beautifully for one family may feel exhausting or ineffective in another—not because it’s “bad,” but because it doesn’t fit the mission.

When your curriculum supports your actual homeschool goals, everything gets easier.

Think About Your Educational Philosophy

You do not need a formal education degree to homeschool well—but it does help to think about how you believe children learn best.

Some common homeschool approaches include:

  • Traditional
  • Classical
  • Charlotte Mason
  • Unit Studies
  • Literature-Based
  • Hands-On / Interest-Led
  • Online / Independent Learning
  • Eclectic Homeschooling

You do not have to fit neatly into one box. In fact, many homeschool families are a mix.

But if you understand your general philosophy, you’ll be much less likely to buy curriculum that clashes with how you actually want to teach.

For example:

  • If you love books and meaningful discussions, a workbook-heavy curriculum may frustrate you.
  • If you need structure and clarity, a highly open-ended program may feel stressful.
  • If your child needs movement and hands-on learning, a lecture-based curriculum may fall flat.

Curriculum works best when it fits both the student and the teacher.

Consider Your Child’s Learning Style

This is where so many curriculum decisions either click—or completely fall apart.

A curriculum can be academically solid and still be a terrible fit for your child.

Ask yourself:

How does my child learn best?

Does your child tend to be:

  • Visual – learns best through charts, pictures, videos, and seeing information
  • Auditory – learns well through listening, read-alouds, discussion, and explanation
  • Hands-On / Kinesthetic – learns best through movement, building, doing, and interacting
  • Reading / Writing Oriented – enjoys books, note-taking, written responses, and independent study

Many children are a blend.

When you understand how your child naturally learns, you can make much smarter curriculum choices.

Example:

A child who loves movement and hands-on exploration may struggle with a workbook-only science program.

A child who loves to read and write may thrive with literature-rich history or notebook-based language arts.

You do not need to over-label your child—but paying attention to how they learn can save you a lot of frustration.

Be Honest About Your Teaching Style

This one matters more than many moms realize.

Because sometimes we buy curriculum for the homeschool mom we wish we were… instead of the homeschool mom we actually are 😅

Ask yourself:

  • Do I want something open-and-go?
  • Do I enjoy lesson planning?
  • Do I want to teach directly, or do I need more independent work?
  • Can I realistically prep crafts, projects, and extras every week?
  • Do I want something scripted or flexible?

Be honest here.

If you are juggling multiple kids, working from home, caring for littles, or just need simplicity, that matters.

There is no prize for choosing the most complicated curriculum.

The best homeschool curriculum is not the one that looks the most impressive online.

It’s the one you can actually use consistently in your real life.

7 Questions to Ask Before You Buy Homeschool Curriculum

If you want to make a better curriculum decision, start here:

1. What are my homeschool goals?

What do I want this subject—or this school year—to accomplish?

2. How does my child learn best?

Will this curriculum support their strengths or create constant friction?

3. How much prep time can I realistically handle?

Will this work for my current season of life?

4. Is this curriculum parent-led or independent?

Do I need something I teach directly, or something my child can do more independently?

5. Does it fit our values and worldview?

Does this resource align with what matters most to our family?

6. Will this work for more than a few weeks?

Can I see us still using this after the excitement wears off?

7. Am I buying this because it fits us—or because it worked for someone else?

This one matters a lot.

Just because a curriculum worked beautifully for another family does not mean it’s the right fit for yours.

Common Homeschool Curriculum Mistakes to Avoid

You can save yourself a lot of money and stress by avoiding a few common mistakes.

Buying too much at once

You do not need an entire homeschool bookstore to get started.

Start with your core subjects and build from there.

Buying based on hype

Just because everyone online loves something doesn’t mean it will work in your home.

Choosing pretty over practical

Beautiful curriculum is fun—but usable curriculum is better.

Ignoring your child’s learning needs

A “good” curriculum can still be a poor fit if it doesn’t match your child.

Switching too quickly

Sometimes curriculum needs time. Don’t abandon something after one rough week unless it’s clearly a bad fit.

Assuming one curriculum has to do everything

You are allowed to mix and match.

Many homeschool families use different programs for different subjects—and that’s often the best solution.

You Do Not Need One Box Curriculum to Homeschool Well

This is such an important reminder.

Some families love all-in-one curriculum. Others do much better piecing together resources subject by subject.

There is no one right way to build your homeschool.

You might use:

  • one math program
  • a different language arts curriculum
  • living books for history
  • a hands-on science option
  • and a Bible or worldview resource that fits your family

That is not “doing it wrong.”

That is customizing your homeschool.

And often, that flexibility is one of the biggest strengths of home education.

Helpful Homeschool Curriculum Categories to Explore

If you’re trying to narrow your choices, it can help to think in categories rather than trying to compare everything at once.

Traditional / Structured Curriculum

Great for families who want:

  • clear lesson plans
  • strong structure
  • predictable pacing
  • parent confidence

Literature-Rich / Book-Based Curriculum

Great for families who want:

  • meaningful reading
  • discussion-based learning
  • strong history and language arts
  • less workbook overload

Hands-On / Interactive Curriculum

Great for children who need:

  • movement
  • projects
  • experiments
  • tactile learning

Online / Independent Curriculum

Great for families who want:

  • flexibility
  • more student independence
  • less parent teaching time
  • digital access

Skill-Specific Curriculum

Sometimes the best move is choosing by subject.

For example:

  • one math curriculum
  • one writing curriculum
  • one reading program
  • one science resource

This often works especially well for eclectic homeschoolers.

If You’re New to Homeschooling, Start Simple

This may be the best advice on the whole page:

Start simpler than you think you need to.

You do not need:

  • the fanciest curriculum
  • every elective
  • a perfect system
  • or a giant stack of expensive books

You need a workable plan.

That usually means:

  • a few solid core subjects
  • a daily rhythm
  • room to adjust
  • and permission to learn as you go

Homeschooling gets easier when you stop trying to recreate school at home and start building a learning environment that actually fits your family.

What If You Choose the Wrong Curriculum?

Then you pivot.

That’s one of the gifts of homeschooling.

You are not trapped.

If something truly is not working, you can:

  • adjust it
  • supplement it
  • slow it down
  • change your approach
  • or replace it entirely

That doesn’t mean you failed.

It means you’re paying attention.

Some of the best homeschool decisions happen after a family realizes,
“Okay… this is not working. Let’s try something else.”

That is wisdom, not failure.

Key Takeaways for Choosing Homeschool Curriculum

  • There is no one perfect homeschool curriculum
  • The best curriculum is the one that fits your family
  • Your child’s learning style matters
  • Your teaching style matters too
  • Start simple and avoid overbuying
  • You can always adjust as you go

FAQ: Choosing Homeschool Curriculum

How do I choose the right homeschool curriculum?

Start by considering your child’s learning style, your homeschool goals, and how much parent involvement you realistically want. The best curriculum is the one your family will actually use consistently.

What is the best homeschool curriculum for beginners?

The best homeschool curriculum for beginners is often something simple, clear, and easy to implement. Open-and-go curriculum can be especially helpful for new homeschool families.

Should homeschool curriculum match my child’s learning style?

Yes, learning style can be a very helpful guide. Some children learn best through books and writing, while others need visual, hands-on, or discussion-based learning.

How much homeschool curriculum should I buy?

Less than you think. Start with your core subjects and add gradually. Many homeschool families buy too much in the beginning.

Can I mix different homeschool curriculum programs?

Absolutely. Many homeschool families use different resources for different subjects to create a custom plan that works best for their child.

 

Teaching Multiple Grades at Home

Teaching Multiple Grades at Home

Israel and Brook discuss tips and ideas for juggling homeschooling several grades at once. They offer ideas for using family-integrated studies, one-on-one teaching, and what to do with a slacker. If you are home educating your own children, you won’t want to miss this episode!

www.FamilyRenewal.org

 

Tune into the Family Renewal podcast as Israel and Brook Wayne talk about teaching history in your homeschool.  For additional podcasts by Brook & Israel Wayne, visit their podcast page.


Learn more in the new book, Education: Does God Have an Opinion? A Biblical Apologetic for Christian Education & Homeschooling

 


Israel Wayne is the author of the books:

Questions God Asks: Unlocking the Wisdom of Eternity (New Leaf Press, 2014)

Questions Jesus Asks: Where Divinity Meets Humanity (New Leaf Press, 2015)

Co-Author of Pitchin’ A Fit! Overcoming Angry & Stressed-Out Parenting  (New Leaf Press, 2016)

Education: Does God Have an Opinion? A Biblical Apologetic for Christian Education & Homeschooling (Master Books, 2017)

Answers for Homeschooling: Top 25 Questions Critics Ask  (Master Books, 2018)

Raising Them Up – Parenting for Christians (New Leaf Press, 2020)

Homeschool Answers Book Bundle

The decision to homeschool is difficult. There is so much to learn, and there are often radical changes that take place in your family. Unfortunately, not everyone will be supportive.

Well-meaning friends and relatives may believe you are going to “ruin your child.” How can you make sure that you have laid a good foundation for your child’s future? How can you respectfully defend your choice to those who disagree with you?

Many studies indicate that Christian youth are leaving the Church, and anti-Christian education has been linked as a major factor in this equation. The Bible is full of instructions on how God desires His children to be educated. IF GOD has a definite opinion about the issue of education, wouldn’t you desire to find out what it is and how best to implement HIS WISDOM? Order your copy here.

Homeschooling: An Interview w/ Brook Wayne

Israel Wayne’s wife, Brook, was homeschooled since 1983. She discusses her family’s journey into home education and discusses homeschooling her own eight children.

www.FamilyRenewal.org

Show Host Spotlight – Pat Wesolowski

UltimateHomeschoolRadioShow_ButtonIn this episode the spotlight is on Pat Wesolowski, veteran homeschooler and curriculum creator and author.

Pat is the host of the bi-monthly show – “Better Together – Co-Ops” and she is a firm believer that co-ops are a wonderful addition to any homeschool.