Homeschooling The Struggling Learner

Homeschooling the Struggling Learner | HIRL Podcast CTC SponsoredAre you homeschooling a struggling learner? Fletch and Kendra share three practical ideas for you as you consider homeschooling a child who struggles.

Join us for this week’s episode as we answer a listener’s question about how to give struggling learners the time and attention they need.

EPISODE TIMELINE
:50 Fluff – shout out to John Wilkerson 
6:33 Homeschooling the Struggling Learner
23:25 Wrapping it up
25:41 The show is over. Goodbye!


SHOW NOTES:

Recommended Resources:
Betty the Surf Dog – Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Website
Fletch Twitter
Kendra Twitter

Previous Episodes Mentioned:
All of them

Music clips used on this episode:
None


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Join Fletch (from theMangoTimes) and Kendra (from Preschoolers and Peace and KendraFletcher.com) for the HomeschoolingIRL podcast every week as they interview guests and talk through some of the goofiness they have experienced in nearly two decades.

Homeschooling The Struggling Learner – HIRL Episode 102 Replay

Homeschooling the Struggling Learner | HIRL Podcast CTC SponsoredAre you homeschooling a struggling learner? Fletch and Kendra share three practical ideas for you as you consider homeschooling a child who struggles.

Join us for this week’s episode as we answer a listener’s question about how to give struggling learners the time and attention they need.

EPISODE TIMELINE
:50 Fluff – shout out to John Wilkerson 
6:33 Homeschooling the Struggling Learner
23:25 Wrapping it up
25:41 The show is over. Goodbye!


SHOW NOTES:

Recommended Resources:
Betty the Surf Dog – Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Website
Fletch Twitter
Kendra Twitter

Previous Episodes Mentioned:
All of them

Music clips used on this episode:
None


SUBSCRIBE AND LEAVE AN iTUNES REVIEW:

Allow the magic of the internet to deliver Homeschooling In Real Life to your tablet or smartphone. Let us show you how easy it is:

  1. Follow this link to our iTunes page.
  2. IMPORTANT STEP: Under our big red HomeschoolingIRL logo, just click on View in iTunes
  3. The iTunes program will automatically launch and take you to our podcast page.
  4. FIRST – Click SUBSCRIBE. Voila! All or our podcasts will come directly to your computer and smartphone.
  5. NEXT – Click RATINGS AND REVIEW. Remember the best reviews are 5 stars (hint hint!).
  6. Thanks for being one of our listeners! HIRLers rock!

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO LISTEN TO HomeschoolingIRL?

  1. You can listen right on this page. There is an audio player below.
  2. You can listen on your iPod, Smartphone or tablet. Open the PODCAST app on your device, search podcasts for “HomeschoolingIRL” and click subscribe. Easy peasy lemon squeezy.
  3. Subscribe to the HomeschoolingIRL website and you will be notified when every new episode is released. Follow this link and begin your FREE SUBSCRIPTION.


ADVERTISERS/SPONSORS:

CTC Math | A Great Math Curriculum for Homeschool Families

 



LISTEN HERE

Are you ready to listen to Fletch and Kendra get real about homeschooling? Press the PLAY button below.


Join Fletch (from theMangoTimes) and Kendra (from Preschoolers and Peace and KendraFletcher.com) for the HomeschoolingIRL podcast every week as they interview guests and talk through some of the goofiness they have experienced in nearly two decades.

How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home (Replay)

In this episode, Fletch and Kendra sit down with Barrett and Jennifer Johnson to talk about how Christian families (especially homeschool families) can unintentionally raise kids who know the rules—but don’t know grace.How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home

(with Barrett & Jennifer Johnson)

Sponsored by CTCMath.com

Episode Snapshot

What happens when “good behavior” gets mistaken for gospel transformation? In this episode, Fletch and Kendra sit down with Barrett and Jennifer Johnson to talk about how Christian families (especially homeschool families) can unintentionally raise kids who know the rules—but don’t know grace. They unpack legalism, “recipe parenting,” identity, and what it looks like to shepherd kids toward Jesus instead of toward performance. ✨

This is a replay of an earlier broadcast and links and events mentioned in the podcast have been updated in the show notes.


In This Episode, You’ll Hear About…

  • Why legalism and moralism can quietly “check God out of the equation”

  • The viral blog post: “How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home”

  • The difference between raising well-behaved kids and raising kids who understand grace

  • The trap of recipe parenting and the myth of “perfect outcomes”

  • Moral Therapeutic Deism and why it resonates with many Christian families

  • Homeschool pressure: when kids become a reflection of the parent’s identity

  • “Shepherding a Child’s Heart” (what’s good, what can go sideways)

  • Helping kids engage the world with discernment instead of fear

  • Why kids need space to ask questions and wrestle with faith

  • What dads need to hear: modeling humility, confession, and relationship

Guest Spotlight: Barrett & Jennifer Johnson

Barrett & Jennifer Johnson share their family story, ministry background, and what led Barrett to write the viral post that sparked this episode.

About the Johnsons:

  • Live in Atlanta (after moving from Texas)

  • Married 23 years

  • Parents of five kids, including a sweet adoption story with an open adoption relationship

  • Barrett runs INFO for Families (Imperfect & Normal Families Only)

Barrett shares how the post went viral:

  • 150,000 views in 5–6 days

  • 500,000+ views in the first month

Big Takeaways

  • Christianity isn’t primarily about “being good.” It’s about Jesus.

  • Kids can learn rules without learning grace.

  • Homeschool culture can unintentionally encourage identity-driven parenting (“Don’t embarrass me.”)

  • The goal isn’t to “have your kids’ hearts”—it’s to point their hearts to Christ.

  • Parents modeling confession (“I was wrong. Forgive me.”) matters more than image management.

  • Dads play a powerful role when they lead with love + relationship, not distance + pressure.

Encouragement for Dads (Don’t Skip This 👇)

Barrett speaks directly to fathers about being the “lead confessor” in the home:

  • Don’t confuse leadership with being harsh or distant

  • High standards without grace create discouragement and disconnect

  • Kids are more likely to listen to someone they like and trust

  • Model repentance, humility, tenderness, and truth

Jennifer adds what mattered most in their homeschool years:

  • Being united as a team

  • Dad reinforcing mom’s work and providing “buck stops here” support

  • Emotional encouragement—because homeschooling can feel thankless


Links & Resources Mentioned

Barrett & Jennifer Johnson’s Blog: INFO for Families

  • infoforfamilies.com (also referenced as INFO4Families)

  • Search Facebook for their INFO for Families page

(Fletch mentions adding links in the show notes to Christian Smith, “Soul Searching,” and “Christless Christianity.”)



Listener Shoutout 🎉

A special shoutout to Rebecca, who listens while exercising early in the morning. 🙌


Production Note:
Homeschooling in Real Life is a production of the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Network. For more info, to contact the hosts, or to connect on social media, visit UltimateRadioShow.com

Special Replay: HomeschoolingIRL Episode 6: I’m Thinking About Homeschooling, But…

📚 Part of our guide: How to Start Homeschooling

Thinking about homeschooling but have reservations? Let's address them!

Thinking about homeschooling? Have a friend who is?

 Are you thinking about homeschooling? On this episode of Homeschooling IRL, we’ll answer your burning questions about homeschooling, such as, “Will my kids have to raise their hands to ask to go to the bathroom?”, “What about the prom?”, and “Who gets to be the lunch lady?”
Just kiddin’. We’ve polled moms and dads who are thinking about homeschooling and asked them what concerns them most. We didn’t prompt or suggest their comments, and you just might find yourself relating to what they have to say.
When told they fear burnout, kids who turn out wacky, and their own academic shortcomings, we responded with honesty and transparency with some good old-fashioned humor and self-deprecation mixed in. This is the stuff of real life!

This podcast is sponsored by CTC Math

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Thinking About Homeschooling Show Notes:

Summary of Thinking About Homeschooling

Ctcmath.com.
0:00

Intro to homeschooling in real life.

1:19

It takes a lot of time and commitment.

6:25

The reality of homeschooling in real life.

11:50

I don’t know if I can do this right.

21:06

Why science is hard to homeschool?

23:30

Q and A with Candy.

29:27

What do you mean by socialization?

34:00

How to bring Jesus into your home?

39:52

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SUMMARY KEYWORDS

homeschooling, kids, homeschool, teach, people, question, child, thinking, public school, year, podcast, boys, coffee, friends, picture, fletch, homeschoolers, school, high school, multi-sensory approach

Special Replay: What To Do About Sibling Relationships?

Sibling relationships. Sibling rivalries. Siblings fighting. We put out the question to our listeners and they responded with story after story of siblings who know how to tease, fight and use sarcasm like professionals.Special Replay:  We received a message on the HomeschoolingIRL Facebook page that said, “Please, please, please do an episode on siblings fighting. Thanks!”

Sibling relationships. Sibling rivalries. Siblings fighting. We put out the question to our listeners and they responded with story after story of siblings who know how to tease, fight and use sarcasm like professionals.

On this episode, we dig into the topic of parenting through sibling relationships in your homeschool. Fletch and Kendra open up about their own family and share practical advice for handling those tricky, sticky moments when brothers and sisters want to be anything but best friends. We also announce our coffee contest winner and we each answer the question: “What Ben/Jerry’s ice cream flavor would you create and what would you call it?”

Music clips used on this show:

“George Street Shuffle” Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0
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Thank You to our Network Sponsor – CTC Math!

 

Back to School (Replay)

Back to School , a Homeschooling IRL podcast on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast NetworkAre you starting your school year?  In this Best of HIRL, we gather around the teacher’s lounge and gear up for another year of teaching our kids at home.

When this episode first ran, Fletch and Kendra were starting their 19th year of homeschooling with a bang and letting you in on the fun. In this episode, they also imparted 5 questions to ask yourself as you head back to school this year.

Join us and let’s get the school year rolling!

Sponsored by CTCMath.com


SHOW NOTES to Back to School:

Episode Title: Back to School: Starting a New Homeschool Year

Podcast: HomeschoolingIRL on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network

Introduction:
In this “Best of” episode of HomeschoolingIRL on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network, hosts Fletch and Kendra gather around the virtual teacher’s lounge to kick off another exciting year of homeschooling. With the start of their 19th year of homeschooling, they share their enthusiasm and insights for a successful year ahead.

Episode Highlights:
– The hosts, Fletch and Kendra, share their experiences and excitement as they embark on their 19th year of homeschooling.
– Listeners get a glimpse into the hosts’ homeschooling journey and the growth they’ve witnessed over the years.
– Fletch and Kendra discuss their approach to starting the new homeschool year with energy and enthusiasm.
– The hosts introduce 5 thought-provoking questions to help homeschooling parents reflect and prepare for the upcoming school year.

Main Discussion: 5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Starting the New School Year:
1. **What Are Your Goals?** – The hosts encourage parents to define their goals for the upcoming year. Whether it’s academic achievements, character development, or fostering specific skills, having clear goals can guide the homeschooling journey.

2. What Worked Last Year? – Reflecting on the previous year’s successes and challenges helps parents identify what teaching methods, curriculum, and routines were effective. This reflection can inform decisions for the new year.

3. What Needs Improvement? – Fletch and Kendra suggest addressing areas that might need improvement. Whether it’s time management, organization, or addressing specific subjects, being honest about weaknesses can lead to growth.

4. How Can You Make Learning Engaging? – The hosts emphasize the importance of making learning enjoyable and engaging for both parents and students. They discuss creative ideas to spark curiosity and excitement in the learning process.

5. How Will You Take Care of Yourself? – Fletch and Kendra stress the significance of self-care for homeschooling parents. Balancing responsibilities and personal well-being contributes to a healthier homeschooling environment.

Conclusion:

As the hosts gear up for their 19th year of homeschooling, they inspire listeners to approach the new school year with intention, excitement, and a commitment to growth. By addressing the provided questions, parents can lay a strong foundation for a successful and fulfilling homeschooling journey.

For more insights and tips on starting a new homeschool year with enthusiasm and purpose, tune in to this “Best of” episode of HomeschoolingIRL on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

**Resources Mentioned:**
– [Any relevant resources or links mentioned during the episode]

**Disclaimer:**
The information and opinions shared in this podcast episode are for informational purposes only. Listeners are encouraged to seek professional advice and do their own research before making any educational decisions.

*Please note that the above show notes are a creative representation and should be reviewed, revised, or modified as per your specific requirements and the actual content of the episode.*

Recommended Resources:
None

Follow Fletch/Kendra:
Fletch Twitter
Kendra Twitter

Follow the Studio Dogs:
Betty the Surf Dog – Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Website
Rasta The Chocolate Lab – Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Website

Previous Episodes Mentioned:
None

Music clips used on this episode:
What Did You Learn In School Today? by Pete Seeger – Buy It Here On iTunes

 

 



How To Homeschool High School (replay)

How To Homeschool Highschool | Are you new to homeschooling, or perhaps entering those high school years? Do you wonder how to homeschool high school? In this episode, Felice Gerwitz and Vicki Tillman | #podcast #homeschoolpodcast #howtohomeschoolhighschoolHow To Homeschool High School – Episode 367

Are you new to homeschooling, or perhaps entering those high school years? Do you wonder how to homeschool high school? In this episode, Felice Gerwitz and Vicki Tillman (The Homeschool Highschool Podcast) discuss how to get started and the information you need to know!

Visit Vicki Tillman and the 7-Sisters at 7SistersHomeschool.com

SO you want to know how to homeschool high school…well, you came to the right place. Today’s wonderful guest is a supercharged knowledge bank of information, Vicki Tillman!

Thanks to our sponsor CTCMath – visit CTCMath.com for more information and a current offer of a free subscription. These offers tend to change so hurry to grab your set.

Be sure to check out Vicki’s list for high school students to discern what track they should take.

CTCMath.com | Math Curriculum

Vicki Tillman does everything homeschool highschool! Transcripts, encouragement, and everything in between. Vicki started homeschooling about thirty years ago and times have changed yet if there were not opportunities they started them. If there were enough of us moms we’d start co-ops or debate teams or cinematography teams and, choirs. We began an umbrella school that was registered with the state of Delaware so that the high schoolers could get a transcript approved by the state.

Homeschooling opens doors. What the universities have found in this early generation, especially my older kids is that homeschoolers know how to rock things. They know how to study, they know how to motivate themselves and they actually often have better social skills than their traditionally schooled peers. So they often were campus leaders in organizations. That is so true.

Yet parents have so many questions:

  1. Will this work for us?
  2. Is this something that will be longterm?
  3. Will our kids be able to get into colleges?
  4. What kind of transcripts do I need?
  5. Where can we get our books?

How do you start homeschool high school?

  1. Start by joining the homeschool legal defense organization HSLDA.org 
    • At the HSLDA website, they have all the information for state requirements for high school.
  2. There is no one right way to homeschool. All kids are different. What works for one may not work for the others.
  3. If the student needs a transcript, they need to have a piece of paper that they graduate with that will follow them to college or even into the workforce. Employers can ask for them even ten years later
  4. Know what credits you need to graduate.
    • Typically four language arts credits, between two and four maths according to what their goals are and what the state wants. They’ll need somewhere between two to four sciences. And the same with social studies. They usually need a couple of world languages. Phys ed, usually a health and then usually a fine arts credit.
    • Every state varies. That’s why we send you to HSLDA, look at their state map for more information about your particular state.
    • Sometimes God calls some kids to go into the trades or into some kind of artisan work. If that is the case they don’t need to kill themselves doing super-duper academics in high school.
    • The college-bound kids, especially if they’re going after scholarships or going to a state or a more competitive college, will want to go to the high end of things and do more vigorous curriculum.

Overview of Four Years:

  1. Go over this with your teens. Sit down and discuss it, what you want to have accomplished by the time they graduate.
  2. Knowing how many maths, if they’re going to a competitive college, then they need all four math.
    • So they’ll need Algebra one to Geometry, Precalc or if they’re going into a stem subject, they need the Algebra in, in middle school and go for the higher math and as Statistics.
  3. For Literature. Ask do you want a free for all literature where the kids just randomly pick and you pick and you have a mixture of, of different kinds of literature? Or do you want to focus on American Lit, one year in British Lit, one year in a whole year of CS Lewis, American or World Literature? You can even concentrate on poetry for a year.
  4. There is no one right way to homeschool high school. You can focus on a student’s interests. For example the histories, etc.

Career Exploration ~

Here is a list of questions high school students can ask themselves, pray and think about, from Vicki Tillman!

  1. What are my strengths?
  2. What are my weaknesses?
  3. What is important to me? (education, just enough education, LOTS of education, working with my hands, serving my country, 9-5 working hours, travel, time for family and friends, climbing the corporate ladder, fame, predictability, time for church and volunteering, good benefits?)
  4. What things have I done in life already that are interesting? (Career-focused or not)
  5. Who are the most influential people in my life? What do they do for a career and volunteering?
  6. What has God already shown me about me? (Career-related or not)
  7. What careers might be interesting to me? (Do I already know? If not, what can I do to try on some new hats? Field trips? Volunteering at new places? Reading some biographies? Interviewing people in various jobs?)
Here’s a freebie from Vicki to get started – Visit the 7 Sisters Website for the Questionaire. 

HomeschoolingIRL Episode 4: Homeschooling Will Save Your Kids, Part One

Homeschooling Will Save Your KidsHomeschooling Will Save Your Kids?

Sponsored by CTCMath.com

Most of us won’t say outright that we think homeschooling will save your kids, but many of us pack this idea in the back of our minds: if we only do it right, our kids will turn out to be good, godly adults.

Is that true? Can we trust that homeschooling will save your kids?

On this episode, we share our own homeschool journey, where we think we got it right, where we know we got it wrong, and then we’ll bring some levity to the whole show by recommending some things we love and a new segment called “Q and A with K and A.”

 Join us for Homeschooling IRL Episode #4, where we peel back the layers of our own hearts and expose the areas where we may be relying on our own good works to deliver our kids to the finish line.

 

SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 4 – HOMESCHOOLING WILL SAVE YOUR CHILDREN, PART 1

 

 

Join Fletch (from theMangoTimes) and Kendra (from Preschoolers and Peace) podcast every two weeks as they interview guests and talk through some of the goofiness they have experienced in nearly two decades of Homeschooling In Real Life.

 

Talking With Kids About Tragedy – Special Replay

Talking to Your Kids About Tragedy

Talking with Kids About Tragedy

Tragedy. In terms of media and social media, tragedy has become a staple of our daily diet. The world seems to be going crazy and the news is full of stories that are difficult for kids to process and understand. How do we talk to our children about race issues, murder, terrorism, and other tragic current events? 

On this episode, we dive right into modern events and take on the headlines of the day. We discuss ages and appropriateness of content and conversation, how to address our children’s fears, and of course how to bring the gospel into every conversation.

 


Special Thanks to our Network Sponsor!

CTC Math.


Special Replay | Can Your Homeschooler Go To College – HIRL Episode 27

can homeschoolers go to college podcast with HIRL

Can Your Homeschooler Go To College?

The answer to this question is obvious: we all know that homeschoolers can go to college!

This episode is brought to you by CTCMath.com – a wonderful math curriculum for all of your homeschool needs, or to brush up on new skills.

On this episode of Homeschooling In Real Life, Fletch and Kendra get real and challenge their listeners to join them in a difficult discussion about fear and trusting God as they contemplate sending their children onto higher education.

Along the way, they sit down with two college admissions counselor. They ask them to share the experiences they have had when homeschoolers apply to college. How are we doing when it comes to academic preparedness, pride and preparing our kids for college?

Finally, Fletch and Kendra wrap up their show with a special edition of the HIRLer’s Treasure Chest. Tune in to see what these two are recommending for you now!

 

Homeschool College Success

Not only can homeschoolers go to college, they can succeed when they are there. Time and again, we have seen the statistics. There are a wide variety of college prep opportunities for homeschool kids.

Episode Timeline

03:45 – Fletch/Kenj talk begins the discussion about parenting from a place of fear.
15:13 – Grand Canyon University Admission reps Nick Chandler, and Carrie Fox-Buttram joins the discussion.
45:29 – HIRL’ers Treasure Chest


 

Join Fletch (from theMangoTimes) and Kendra (from Preschoolers and Peace) for the HomeschoolingIRL podcast every two weeks as they interview guests and talk through some of the goofiness they have experienced in nearly two decades of Homeschooling In Real Life.


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