HSHSP Ep 112: Adapting to Unexpected Changes for Your Homeschool Family

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HSHSP Ep 112 Adapting to Unexpected Changes for Your Homeschool Family

HSHSP Ep 112: Adapting to Unexpected Changes for Your Homeschool Family

Sabrina and Kym have allergies. Life happens. Not a very big happening but it does have an impact.

But sometimes life happens and it is more serious or time consuming than an allergy attack.

  • A family move
  • Your oldest graduating and moving out on their own
  • Starting a business
  • Grandparents moving in
  • A new baby
  • A big opportunity for one of the homeschoolers
  • A divorce or death in the family
  • Some things are life shattering, some are so very positive!

Whatever the change, change happens and new systems must be devised and put into place in your homeschool.

Look at your schedule. What are your deal breakers (what will save mom’s sanity because she’s the one who *drives the boat*)?

There’s not ONE right deal breaker but some we’ve seen are:

  • No matter what, we are getting math done.
  • No matter what, we are having supper together.
  • No matter what, we are getting reading done.
  • No matter what, we are getting to co-op.

Beware, though, of sacred cows. They are not actually deal breakers…we just can fall into thinking they are:

  • Homeschool co-op (especially a high stress co-op)
    • If you need a break, politely explain that you need to withdraw for the year.
  • Family devotions
    • We all love devotions but maybe there might be other formats to have spiritual formation during a big life-change time.
  • Mom teaching every subject
    • Do you need to revamp? Farm out a kid for a subject? Get an online course?

Remember this: Difficulty brings opportunity.

  • What is the opportunity that God is inviting you and your family to?
  • What do you need to do for self-care at this time? And your family’s self-care?
  • What do your teens need to step up for?

SO always:

  • Pray
  • Ask what is a deal-breaker or a sacred cow?
  • Involve your teens in the planning, decision-making and tweaking process?

Also, check out these helpful posts:

Homeschool Highschool Podcast Episode 46: When Life Happens

5 Steps for Catching Up When Your Homeschool High School is Behind

3 Steps for Getting Life Right All the Time VickiTillmanCoaching.com

How to handle life realistically from Vicki Tillman Coaching.

 

 

HSHSP Ep 112: Adapting to Unexpected Changes for Your Homeschool Family

HSHSP Ep 111: What Are Your Teens Surrounded By? Empowering Them

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HSHSP Ep 111: What Are Your Teens Surrounded By? Empowering Them

HSHSP Ep 111: What Are Your Teens Surrounded By? Empowering Your Teens

What and who influences your teens?

What and who are influenced by your teens?

Sabrina, Kym and Quella (the VERY vocal Seeing Eye puppy) have a meaningful discussion about empowering teens to make wise choices, to choose who they are surrounded by and to become influencers in their world.

By the time that your homeschool highschoolers reach these years they need to be empowered to noticed that they are always

  • influencing or being influenced
  • leading or following
  • learning or teaching

As homeschool parents we want to shelter our teens to keep them from *catching sin* from the world around us. This is good until we think we must be God to our teens and control every aspect of their lives. Sometimes an over-controlling, over-protective parents unwittingly teach teens to:

  • Be afraid
  • Sneak or rebel in order to explore

Don’t buy into a one-size-fits-all formula for what your teen should be exposed to. Every teens is different in personality and maturity. It takes grace, humility and LOTS of prayer to know what to allow as an influence and how to teach teens to be healthy influencers.

Here are some tips for knowing how to choose what and who your teens are surrounded by:

  • Examine your goals for your teens and your family
  • Examine your own fears (parenting based on fear makes a mess)
  • Teach Human Development course to teens to help them learn to understand themselves and their phases of life

Homeschool High School Electives: Human Development, A Life-Skills Course

Here’s a great idea, teach homeschool parents can teach their teens:

  • Critical thinking
  • Value (God values our teens, they can value themselves and value others)
  • Understanding themselves
  • Understanding their callings

Join Sabrina, Kym and Barking Quella-Dog for a rousing and encouraging chat. In the meantime, enjoy these posts:

5 Ways to Teach Teens to be Thinkers, Not Parrots

 

HSHSP Ep 111: What Are Your Teens Surrounded By? Empowering Them

HSHSP Ep 110: What’s it Like to be a Homeschool Senior?

There’s not ONE right way to homeschool highschool or be a homeschool senior. But it sure is fun to hear what different homeschool seniors are doing. Join us for a sweet interview with Grabriella Eltringham and find out what her senior year is like.

HSHSP Ep 110: What’s it Like to be a Homeschool Senior?

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HSHSP Ep 110_ What's it Like to be a Homeschool Senior

HSHSP Ep 110: What’s it Like to be a Homeschool Senior?

What’s it like to be a homeschool senior? Well, we know there’s not ONE right way to be a senior but it IS nice to know what it is like for one of them!

Gabriella Eltringham is a homeschool senior who started homeschooling during high school and has been a student in Sabrina and Kym’s classes at our local homeschool group classes.

After elementary years of both homeschooling and a local charter school, Gabriella began homeschooling in middle school at a local homeschool umbrella school and then high school freshman year at a public school and then back to homeschooling at sophomore year at the umbrella school where 7SistersHomeschool.com’s Marilyn, Sabrina and Kym teach.

Photo owned by Gabriella and used with permission.

Gabriella’s 2 older sisters homeschooled in elementary school also but went to public school.

Gabriella liked about homeschool umbrella school:

  • Freedom
  • College preparation
  • Literature classes
  • Smaller classes than public school for better discussion
  • Friends
  • A good finish for her after trying lots of educational settings

Gabriella’s challenges in homeschooling umbrella school:

  • Science classes (she doesn’t like science so more often with teachers might have helped her)

After graduation, Gabriella is headed to West Chester University to study Secondary Education Literature. Gabby reviews books on Instagram and decided on the major after visiting the college and talking to the staff there.

Advice from Gabriella:

  • If you’re a procrastinator, be careful! Be sure to plan out your work and commit to it!
  • If you need to be around people, choose a homeschool umbrella school.

Join Sabrina, Kym and Gabriella for a fun and encouraging chat about being a homeschool senior! In the meantime, enjoy these posts:

What Are Homeschool Umbrella Schools?

HSHSP Ep 76: Homeschool Transcripts for Transfer Students

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HSHSP Ep 109: How to Start a Homeschool Co-op Your Teens Will Enjoy

Homeschooling co-op is a wonderful choice for many homeschool highschoolers. IF the co-op is planned well. Here are tips on creating a co-op your teens will enjoy.

HSHSP Ep 109: How to Start a Homeschool Co-op Your Teens Will Enjoy

This week on HSHSP Ep 109: How to Start a Homeschool Co-op Your Teens Will Enjoy.

HSHSP Ep 109: How to Start a Homeschool Co-op Your Teens Will Enjoy

HSHSP Ep 109: How to Start a Homeschool Co-op Your Teens Will Enjoy

The homeschooling community is famous for co-ops! What are co-ops? They are simply families homeschooling together in some format (co-operating on education).

Homeschool co-ops take lots of formats:

  • 2 families getting together to do fun learning activities
  • Huge co-ops that have 50 families with structured studies
  • 1 topic co-ops
  • There’s not ONE right way to homeschool co-op

What are the benefits of co-ops?

  • Experiencing other teacher’s styles, grading
  • Responsibility of a group setting
  • Fun of some subjects that are delightful in a group
  • Downloading teaching of subjects mom doesn’t like to moms who do like them

Here’s how to start a homeschool co-op you and your teens will enjoy:

  • Start with prayer together
  • Clarify expectations and goals (believe us it will save LOTS of storm and stress later on). Decide the goals co-operatively. Your goals might look like:
    • Aimed at middleschoolers and highschoolers that are science experiences and labs
    • Aimed at mostly reading and writing projects for highschoolers
    • Aimed for multi-subjects and multi-ages
    • Aimed at multi-ages as field trips to historic sites
    • And ENDLESS other goals
  • Decide here you’ll meet
  • Decide when you’ll meet
    • How often
    • Length of school year
    • Breaks
  • Choose class period lengths
  • Will you have a hard start? (Do we wait for everyone to show up? Do we start right on time? This determines who teaches what.)
  • What has God given us to work with?
    • Moms’ interests, gifts and needs
    • Teens’ interests, gifts and needs
  • Determine the costs per family or student
    • Facilities costs (even if you’re in someone’s home, there are expenses to the hosts)
    • Curriculum
    • Course resources and materials
    • What limitations are families experiencing?
  • Clarify logistics
    • Are set-up and clean-up chores assigned?
    • Are moms only involved?
    • Do teens help?
  • Clarify whether there will be a lunch break
    • How will that be organized
    • Beware everyone using the microwave (there’s TOO long a line)
  • Set group check-in times (evaluate yucks and yahoos of the co-op)
    • Also set your own checkins with your teens and yourself

Join Sabrina, Vicki and Kym for a helpful discussion about starting your co-op. Also, check out these episodes:

 

HSHSP Ep 93: How to Start a Homeschool Organization Interview with Carol Topp CPA

HSHSP Ep 85: Healthily Handling Homeschool Mean-Moms with Melanie Wilson

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HSHSP Ep 108: Helping Your Non-College-Bound Teens Find Success

Not all teens should go to college. God has ALL kinds of plans for all kinds of teens. Join us for this inspiring interview with Angela O’Shaughnessy, whose 2 sons were homeschooled, graduated and are living successful adult lives.

HSHSP Ep 108: Helping Non-College-Bound Teens Find Success

This week on HSHSP Ep 108: Helping Non-College-Bound Teens Find Success!

HSHSP Ep 108: Helping Non-College-Bound Teens Find Success

HSHSP Ep 108: Helping Non-College-Bound Teens Find Success

There’s not ONE right way to homeschool highschool AND there’s not ONE right way to do life after highschool.

Many teens are gifted by God to go into a career without going to college. That’s good. Why spend tens of thousands of dollars and 4 years of life on college, when a young person was created to do something else?

Join Vicki for an interview with Angela O’Shaughnessy (who also joined us in Episode 16) whose two sons are loving successful lives that did not require college!

Angela O'Shaughnessy used by permission

Angela and her husband concentrated on helping her sons:

  • Explore their interests
  • Develop their strengths
  • Enjoy hard work
  • Learn networking skills
  • Take opportunities when they come
  • Get technical training if they needed it (one of her sons needed training for his desired machining career)
  • Interviewing/job hunt skills

One of the most important skills her sons learned was networking. Networking has helped Brian and Kevin in:

  • Finding mentors
  • Asking for help or opportunities
  • Getting help to develop skills or compensate for weaknesses

Angela and her sons looked for mentors at church, volunteer and small jobs. Shewho had:

  • Skills that she wanted her sons to explore
  • Character

When Angela worried about the future for her son who struggled with learning disabilities, her husband would remind her,

“Life is long, he has plenty of time to figure it out.”

Both Brian and Kevin are experiencing success in their different careers AND in their interests AND in church AND in other adulting areas. Your homeschool teens can, too!

Join Vicki and Angela for an inspiring chat. In the meantime, check out these posts.

Explore Careers That Don’t Require College

 

10 Fundamental Soft Skills for Relationship and Career Success

What is Career Coaching and Who Needs It?

HSHSP Ep 108: Helping Non-College-Bound Teens Find Success

HSHSP 107: How a Homeschool Athlete Made it to Harvard

This week on HSHSP 107: How a Homeschool Athlete Made it to Harvard.

HSHSP 107: How a Homeschool Athlete Made it to Harvard

HSHSP 107: How a Homeschool Athlete Made it to Harvard

Join us for a fun interview with homeschooler, Jake Johnson, and his mom, Suzanne, Sabrina and Kym (who have been Jake’s teachers at the local homeschool group classes).

Jake gives brief explanations for:

  • Swim ranking in high school
  • His recruiting adventure
  • His experience choosing Harvard (and Harvard choosing him)

His mom tells their homeschooling stories:

  • Their choice to homeschool highschool after some years in a private school and why
  • The ways homeschooling gave Jake more time to train in his swimming “career”

How did they recognize the gift and that they needed to invest in it:

  • Early love of swimming (even at age 3, Jake loved swimming)
  • Early showing of potential/naturalness/speed at swimming
  • Developing passion and work ethic from early childhood through high school
  • Recognition on national leader boards
  • Continuous love of the swim-meet and networking process (peer swimmers and coaches nationwide)

Why homeschooling gave Jake time to develop his swimming skills:

  • It gave him flexibility to travel
  • It gave him better time to balance academics and 6-9 practices/week
  • It helped him develop time management skills
  • It helped him develop communication skills as he worked with homeschool group classes’ teachers when he needed to be absent
  • It helped him develop self-management (knowing when to give his phone to teachers, so he didn’t
  • It helped him manage priorities (balancing academics/swim/friends/church)
  • It helped him learn to “tough through stuff” when necessary

Jake and his mom’s tips for NCAA swim athletes:

  • Travel to national and junior national competitions through high school
  • Work to be on national leader boards
  • Keep feeding the passion
  • Keep having fun
  • Make sure all courses are Level 3 (College Prep) and up
  • Set up a portal at NCAA eligibility center
  • Make sure all courses are NCAA approved
  • Learn how the recruiting process works, talk to NCAA and to coaches BEFORE high school
  • Keep up with NCAA communication promptly
  • Do research on the schools that are watching your athlete
  • Visit interested colleges, at least by sophomore year

Need info about levels? Read these posts on how to handle levels for your homeschoolers.

Homeschool High School Transcripts: Recording Course Levels

Watch this interview with Jake on Swimming World

Join Sabrina, Kym, Jake and Suzanne for a helpful chat!

HSHSP 107: How a Homeschool Athlete Made it to Harvard

HSHSP Ep 106: Language Arts for Non-Language Arts Majors

Got a teen who doesn’t love Language Arts? Still gotta have those credits! Here are some ways to make it not so painful!